@coach.ryan0: When the avoidant jumps into a new relationship after discarding you, and goes ALL in with the new person #avoidant #avoidantattachment #dismissiveavoidant #fearfulavoidantattachment #insecureattachment #attachmentstyle #emotionallyunavailaible #breakup #discard #discarded #divorce #heartbroken #Relationship #dating #situationship #relationshipcoach
i was the new person and he treated me perfectly up until he just out of the blue broke up with me. the new person isn’t safe either. avoidants don’t change if they aren’t self aware.
2024-11-18 16:44:41
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Natalie Elaina 🖤🦇 :
my avoidant ex dated me for 9 months, made me feel like I was someone special, just to find out nobody in his personal life knew about me and I was a secret... but the new gf is being shown off...
2024-11-18 18:23:43
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Charlie :
What if avoidant has neurodivergent tendencies?
2025-01-27 19:33:30
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ridah lakay :
Over a joke i made
2024-11-18 15:39:09
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Pablo’s.17 :
Just move on. Learn to detect them (they use love bombing) and leave them enjoy their new relationship until they fail again and never leave them return.
2024-11-18 15:31:53
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unfab8906 :
And engaged with in 3 month after our break up 😭
2024-11-18 22:49:00
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John22875204 :
I was the new person but was available and then she was gone so I would say it’s just the new person’s turn and they will also be discarded
2024-11-18 15:41:24
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SpeechingBeautySLP :
I love him so much. I just want him to heal and I know I’ll love him and want him no matter what but he just pushes me away . I just want him to see I’ll never give up on us and he’s okay
2024-11-18 19:42:20
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SofyZ :
Was I so easy to forget? 💔
2024-11-18 15:41:19
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Marce Olivares Azuara :
I blocked after I found the NEW gf , he kept writing on a shared note . Last friday he wrote he was coming town, I ignored him, and then he posted a picture of his new Love in a place we planned going
2024-11-18 19:37:46
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Tilac21 :
That makes so much sense. Thank you!
2024-11-18 16:49:25
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bubibubi54 :
So do i understand that right? Because our love (his love for me) was to big? And me showing him my love was to much? He left me bc he loves me?
2024-11-18 22:02:28
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eguidewek :
Perfect timing. Just saw him posting an Ig storie with his new gf soo in love ( a month ago he was still semding me stuff on instagram and reacting to my stories). You can not love someone in a month
2024-11-19 10:38:47
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IceMeltAK -- GenX.Feral :
Good words. I've heard you say this multiple times now but ... sigh ... sucks to see it happening.
2024-11-19 00:02:06
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P🎨👧🏽👩🏻🦱👶🏻✈️ :
It’s a vicious cycle that will happen with all the new persons too unless they choose to heal! Speaking from experience with my ex avoidant partner.
2024-11-19 18:46:12
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Bryan :
Still doesn’t make it feel any better being tossed aside when you truly love them and want them to be healed so it could be a healthy relationship
2024-11-18 16:47:42
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Rebellious Dreamer :
How can someone spend hours with another person being surface level? I guess as an introvert who hates small talk, the thought of that is my worst nightmare… I’d rather be alone than waste time with
2024-11-19 06:40:19
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Alec Iannelli :
So when they do this you just remain in no contact and hope that either you heal and move on or they come back and admit their mistakes?
2024-11-20 02:06:24
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Zofia Kalinowska :
What if we both have also avoidant and also anxious attachment? It’s working the same?
2024-11-20 18:10:16
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Lee Birmingham 👋😃👋 :
Glad I was her lesson so her next dude hopefully never hurts how I do 🙂
2024-11-18 23:36:38
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Youssef Mahgoub :
so how do i get her back? she’s with the new guy now… ik it won’t last. But how do I win her back after
2024-11-20 19:12:49
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Birdy :
They basically ghosted me to get back with their manipulative ex who left them after they proposed 🙃
2024-11-21 04:14:58
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Billy_Batson91 :
phantom ex
2024-11-18 15:32:55
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DivaDee :
Wow...Just...WOW...I'm speechless.
2024-11-21 05:20:03
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