That's a really deep struggle. But it makes me wonder—how do you find peace if the person you're avoiding is the one you're actually looking for?
2024-11-20 09:41:31
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۫✭ puteri ⭒ :
we're not ready for relationship, so just don't hurt them by saying u're struggle. they're struggle too
2024-11-20 22:56:15
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Mayieeee :
It's just my comfort zone but yet everyone thinks that I'm distancing myself from them, it's just a misunderstanding.
2024-11-21 16:47:44
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wens :
but most of the times, I purposely ignore everyone bc I don't wanna deal with anyone.
2024-11-20 18:47:36
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irdina ✩‧₊˚ :
we hate ourselves, too.
2025-01-29 03:44:44
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Jan Julian L. Sarmiento :
1. I don’t know who needs to hear this but most of the time, a person who always self isolate, only needs someone to see and hear them without judgement. Instead of being call “OA” they learned to +++
2024-11-21 22:28:09
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patatasssssss00 :
Mine, I’m in peace when i solate and avoid people. People think, I’m stress or what, but I’m really at peace and happy with self, with my gadgets. When I don’t feel like replying and talking to +
2024-12-12 22:24:03
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Vier :
and once you found your peace, it's difficult to go back to them nor message them for you are afraid that they may think that you're only talking to-
2024-12-02 00:25:24
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hahahahahhaxd🌈 :
That is why we broke up because she is an avoidant, and me I want to address the problem properly before we sleep, but she always hanging me with pain.
2024-12-28 14:25:56
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_arizyn :
How do I tell them it’s normal 😕 How do I tell them that when I’m mad, I don’t reply nor talk to them at all because I want to be alone. I’m always misunderstood
2024-11-23 16:29:32
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jo 🦝 :
Honestly, self isolation is not the best move to find peace, yea sure.. it has some benefits that makes u have some tranquility, but there are more better ways to find peace without avoiding people…
2024-12-08 08:33:39
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𐙚 :
when i said to them to not being selfish not realize im the one who being selfish this whole time, only think about my feelings without think about their feelings, ghosting them without any reasons, distanced myself from people whenever i felt not okay, i always choose peace over people :)
2025-06-07 23:12:18
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Raine :
I understand that it's their coping mechanism, but I don't tolerate them disappearing like a bubble and then reappearing as if nothing happened.
2025-01-24 02:27:46
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sxhino :
but if you're dealing with someone that u think they'll understand you, don't hesitate to tell what u really need so they won't feel yk.
2025-04-28 15:04:42
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si bunbun :
if you struggle with this, just don't come into any relationship before you truly healed. no one worth to get ignored like that.
2025-01-15 01:16:46
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RIN 🍉 :
that's just how i survive
2024-11-20 16:37:56
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kingellysha🪷 :
I don’t like this kind of trait honestly 💔 how do yall want to understanding each other better if yall choose to avoid, especially to those people who yall in love with 😔
2024-11-22 00:08:30
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♓ :
and the struggle to explain that's just you, finding the peace that you badly needed
2024-11-21 15:27:34
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𓆝 𓆟 𓆞 𓆝 𓆟 :
i dont think people understand how hard it is when your toxic trait is self isolation and avoidance, everbody instantly think youre ignoring them but youre just struggling to find peace
2025-01-14 18:04:20
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Imyournightmare :
2 days ago we broke up because she said why do I ignore her everytime na nagkakalaboan kami and at that time I also can't understand myself why I'm doing that so I feel so horrible kasi nasasaktan ko+
2025-04-07 23:47:06
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jing_goo :
I actually felt bad after but I'm trying also to find my stability
2024-11-20 16:54:22
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Yoru :
idek
2025-05-25 05:08:17
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anda :
sorry for not being able to understand you
2025-02-11 09:36:24
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p :) :
how do i tell them that there's just days i need to be alone but tried to act alright afraid they might left me and blame it on me
2024-11-23 06:30:39
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