@totalrelationshipcoach: SO much relationship advice about how to navigate conflict is completely unhelpful for folks with an avoidant attachment style or any form of insecure attachment! If you’ve ever struggled with shutting down or avoiding tough conversations (or your partner?), this is for you! Avoidant attachment can make reconnecting after conflict feel overwhelming—like your partner’s attempts to resolve things are an attack or criticism…instead of an act of love. Sound familiar? Here’s the truth: Your nervous system was conditioned by past experiences to protect you from pain, but now those same triggers are keeping you from the connection you BOTH deserve. The good news? You can change this! For starters, instead of viewing your partner’s efforts to reconnect as criticism, punishment, or them being “too needy”, I want to invite you to consider…that their efforts are ACTUALLY proof of how much they care and how much they value…YOU. If you’ve ever felt like, “I don’t want to feel like this anymore”, I see you! And I can help you become BIGGER than your TRIGGERS. You dont have to figure this out alone: I’ve got the WHAT and HOW for you. All you have to do is grab up all your desire to NOT feel this way anymore and join me for my free ZOOM masterclass: “Becoming Bigger Than Your Triggers: Overcoming Avoidant Attachment” It’s easy: First, follow me so the app will let you direct message me. Then DM me two words: Zoom Yes…and I’ll send you all the details! #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachment #relationshipadviceforwomen #attachment #attachmentissues #conflict #creatorsearchinsights

Erin Bentley, MA

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Friday 22 November 2024 03:40:19 GMT