@claireauden: 10 tactics narcissists will use in an argument to confuse you, try to maintain control and avoid accountability. #narcissistawareness #narcissisticrelationship #npdabuse #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticrelationshiprecovery #narcissismawareness #narcissistsurvivor #narcissism #npd #narcissist #covertnarcissist #narctokadvice #narctok #argument #manipulationtechniques
The confusion was honestly the most horrible. I had never experienced it before and it made me feel crazy
2024-11-30 01:49:44
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blessed :
is it possible after so lomg of this that you start to do it back to them and then does that make me a narcissit?
2024-11-30 02:58:23
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anniemans2000 :
Deflect, lie, your fault … and around and around we go
2024-11-30 16:47:51
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Ti.sha.na :
I’m going through this. I’m soooo tired! Feel like I’m about to lose it!!
2025-02-16 14:15:10
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lizclabaugh :
Now give us some comebacks for all of these tactics.
2024-11-30 02:55:09
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Kaya 🐈⬛ :
Using “boundaries” to avoid responsibilities, commitments, and obligations when those things are inconvenient, frustrating, or otherwise unenjoyable. Zero accountability, as you said.
2024-11-30 05:06:50
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Kevin Temple :
Check, check, check. You nailed all of them.
2024-11-29 22:31:02
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britttt :
Number one but it’s also not just switching topic it’s them asking “when? How? What did I say what did I do when?” Right after you tell them what they said or did they just want to go in circles and
2024-11-30 01:11:30
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Dan :
All of them!!!! It’s infuriating
2024-11-30 01:17:12
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doingmenow0 :
My partner/ex not sure does all 10 of these things to me
2025-01-12 17:13:17
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Christin Nichols :
All of It.
2024-11-30 03:41:35
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Goldilocks2020 :
10/10! 🤯
2024-11-30 02:12:44
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Chantal Hanson ❌ :
I know this all too well. I just left him, it was really hard to do.
2024-11-30 02:44:26
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Dessthetinytaurus :
His go to was “Everything is perfect when we’re together(in person)!We don’t do this,we’re always there for each other!”He was never there for me.He was trying to brainwash me.
2024-11-29 23:20:14
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NewLifeAlex :
Me and friend narcissist left to another country together I found agency but was working so he was taking call from them, I’m C1a in English he’s like b1 at work I was translating and supporting him,
2025-01-23 17:45:08
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Dawn Balcanoff :
Yup, all of them
2024-12-20 11:20:31
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Anna :
currently going through all of these constantly with the co-parent 2 months post separation.
2024-12-01 05:15:51
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beefwagon :
Spot on I kind of collected a lot of these techniques over time but during these convos I eventually get exhausted and fall prey to the tactics. Do you have advice on keeping out of the circular loop?
2024-11-30 00:48:01
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MissyM :
All of them
2024-11-29 23:21:14
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adamdouglassmusic :
I do not miss any of that in the slightest bit
2024-11-29 22:37:37
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cancelled :
do narcissistics actually know they're doing this?
2024-12-26 06:55:04
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E🔮🧿🌻🌙11:11 :
every single one
2024-11-29 21:39:29
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Soul latte :
More why it ends in circular conversations. He blended it on me but we never resolved anything
2024-11-30 05:40:23
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@Lem0uro :
Gosh tysm for sharing- it’s good to know there’s actually terms for these tactics, I would have never known there are terms for what happened to me, tysm 🥺🫶✨
2024-11-30 00:20:29
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