@sfmcguire: she really said “okay ill say what you say!” lmao shout out to pediatric health workers #phlebotomy #childrenshospital #doctor #labs #parenting #momlife #MomsofTikTok #parentingishard #mom #nurse #pediatrics #pediatric
Helping parents is a lot like doing improv. No matter what the parent says you just join in and go with it.
2024-12-05 00:38:58
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Interstellex :
I’m definitely going to be using this saying with my patients
2025-06-10 23:41:52
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alyssamclaughlin3 :
“Are they going to give it back?!” 😂😭
2024-12-05 01:20:45
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lightfootlynx :
When I was a phlebo, I’d tell kids “It’s gunna not feel the greatest. But I promise I will do my best to make it as easy & quick as I can. It’s okay to be scared. But you can do it.”
2024-12-05 00:46:13
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Jayne :
Whenever I can I make sure my son is in the room when I’m getting routine medical care. My idea is that if he sees momma is okay he won’t be as scared when he has the same thing done. He got a blood-
2024-12-05 03:43:54
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blayney3 :
My son needed blood drawn. He is a know the facts guy, who loves anatomy, so I explained in detail how they draw blood. Once he knew what was going to happen he watched it and didn’t cry.
2024-12-05 01:55:47
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sierra :
I'm 31 and everytime I get my blood drawn for pregnancy check ups, my husband holds my hand. It's definitely scary, and I love that you acknowledged her fear!
2024-12-05 23:13:17
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Countrylovely :
My 1yo had to have blood drawn after the LONGEST finger stick. I just held him and told him he was so brave over and over. He doesn’t get what it means but I want to instill this in him from the start
2024-12-05 18:40:36
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Trash4hange :
From the time I was three till I was six, I had to get monthly blood tests done. The phlebotomist sat me down and said it was scary but I had to get it done to help
2024-12-05 18:05:04
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Stacie 🇨🇦 :
I was a phleb, I always was honest. Yep, it does hurt a little bit. I’ll do my best to make it quick and easy. It’s super important to stay very still. It’s okay if you’re scared. I’m not. I got you.
2024-12-05 17:05:08
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Aholcombe272 :
Children’s hospitals have literally got angels inside of them. They’re AMAZING!
2024-12-05 17:42:26
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georges_wild_world :
I had ear problems as a child which resulted in lots of labs, tests and surgeries. My mom was a nurse. At one point as tech said “it won’t hurt” and my mom immediately replied “don’t lie to her.
2024-12-06 02:14:01
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Cassie Dennis :
When my daughter starts to fuss during medical procedures/pokes etc I always tell her “you’re allowed to be upset/scared/mad etc and you express that however you need to. When it’s all done, mama will
2024-12-05 03:58:58
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TeresaS :
1/ I hope your kid feels better soon! I don't know how long she's been feeling unwell, but when I was getting dx w/ celiac, it didn't show up on the blood test at first.
2024-12-05 00:54:07
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Krattgirl124 :
I was always told “it’s not going to hurt, You’re being dramatic, It’s just a pinch, etc.” and now I’m terrified of needles to the point I need multiple stuffed animals when I update my vaccines
2024-12-05 23:57:58
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n :
as a kid my dad made me look at it while it happened and i’m convinced this is what created my fear of needles LOL
2024-12-06 05:22:16
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Lzilulu :
My kiddo is an oncology patient and we got this little gadget called Buzzy (on Amazon) and it’s been a lifesaver! It buzzes & interrupts the pain signals & distracts kiddo so they don’t feel the stick
2024-12-05 18:02:33
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Cynnie :
we're also very big on acknowledging fear/unease in moments that aren't fun like bloodwork or even at the dentist. We tell little one it's okay to have some big feelings, ee can talk through them and work together through that very not fun moment he has to go through
2024-12-05 16:47:23
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MacKenzie Bodtker :
Former phlebotomist, I always ALWAYS planned on taking twice or three times as long for kids of a certain age. Always wanted them to do it themselves versus having to be held. Better in Long run.
2024-12-05 12:42:30
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Dink3 :
while I too subscribe to the "we have to do things scared" mindset, I will say as a nurse most parents, and patients, do not. Kudos to phlebot for the pivot!
2024-12-05 20:55:07
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Mercedes Benzie :
Pedatric nurse i say you are still brave even if you cry.
2024-12-05 15:48:39
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user7048887569409 :
Love the words!
2024-12-05 20:08:16
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:⁰ :
as a person who is okay with needles etc, have the nurse/whoever tell and explain what they are doing! it has helped me a lot to know when and what they are doing, oh also im in my 20s :) still works
2024-12-05 04:17:51
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Ainsley | Lifestyle Creator :
I took my autistic 3 year old for a draw. We repeated “I’m so strong” and I held her close so she could lean into me. It was scary, so we just picked a mantra even though she could’ve verbalize to me
2024-12-05 07:15:45
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