Professor Sol
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Sunday 15 December 2024 16:07:15 GMT
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Wynn :
well this is very much me. you did leave out that we do not have emotional investment in the details/patterns ... its data or facts ... keeping data isn't keeping judgement
2024-12-15 19:42:42
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Morgan Cauch :
I lost a 16 year friendship to this. She decided one day I was manipulative and trying to talk my way out of being “in trouble.” But why would I be in trouble when I mean well? Context will explain.
2024-12-15 19:10:22
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Pleasant Fiction :
My pattern recognition is often seen as me keeping a mental tally of wrongdoings or transgressions. I just don’t see how they can’t see we are having the same conversation/arguments over and over
2024-12-15 16:27:21
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scotty doesn't know :
on the one hand, I tends to do this too (while not being autistic, as far as I know), so I get the urge to do it. on the other hand, when not paired with empathy and great social skills
2024-12-26 08:52:23
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felonygriffiththesequel :
My urge to send this so there is more context
2024-12-16 03:48:07
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Nay408💋 :
I always get labeled as reactive or sensitive and that ends up making me mad even if I wasn’t mad I’m just trying to understand the bigger picture 😩
2024-12-15 17:19:50
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huytongirl :
"If I explain myself thoroughly, I will be understood and everything will be fine." Took me years to realise that's not so..I still find myself doing it.
2024-12-17 23:55:33
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Fusehound Enthusiast :
this has never been this perfectly articulated before. thank you, I'm going to use this video to explain things to people in the future.
2025-02-14 11:31:10
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Trek McArthur :
You've single-handedly saved my relationship with my allistic partner. I was able to finally communicate why my explanations look like excuses and what you're doing is so incredibly important.
2024-12-15 20:00:04
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milihn :
"Stop giving excuses, I want the reason. Not excuses". These words shattered me in a meeting and my head silently screamed "By definition the difference between the two is intent".
2024-12-15 22:57:29
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bumbelina :
Wait. Is this why I have always relied on metaphors to explain something? Like all the time, since forever. Is it common
2024-12-15 20:57:28
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ScottT5X🇨🇦 :
Context is key….I need context almost as much as I need oxygen.
2024-12-15 18:09:30
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user.15473927282732928 :
U explained this really well. I’ve been very self reflective and introspective this year, I thought that I was adhd since I was 17, and the last year or so, the more I research and study classes, and introspect, and pay attention to my communication style, the way that I think, that way that I process emotions and information, the things I am interested, HOW im interested in t things, why, the patterns of these things, etc. im starting to believe that I might be on the spectrum.
2025-07-12 20:47:12
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Jak Xenon 🏳️🌈 :
it's like I'm speaking a different language. I say something like- I explained "this" to you and you misunderstood based on something I did not say. I didn't mean that or say that so it's not relevant
2024-12-16 01:32:09
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I'dRatherKnot :
Why can’t they understand? I’m just trying to relate?
2024-12-15 16:55:41
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maryficorella310 :
I need serious help with this. As the holistic one, it seems that everything revolves are HER and HER feelings and comes off like she could care less about mine.
2024-12-16 16:08:23
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Sarah :
I feel like you should promote your IG. You have been so helpful to me and I'm sure many others. I would hate for people to lose your content come the ban.
2024-12-15 16:47:06
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Breatheandrepeat :
It happens all the time to me with my mother who just hates me because I’m autistic like my dad
2024-12-15 16:26:00
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Anissa ⭐️ :
uh oh, daily reminder i need to be evaluated
2024-12-15 18:29:25
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ToxicWubs :
used to deal with this issue, constantly my ex would be leaving out details or context and then fight would get worse until i finally got the missing details out of them.
2025-02-05 14:06:06
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ShrekIsInMyBathroom :
sometimes my partner makes connections to things that don't have any relevance and it seems like we can't focus on an issue without switching subjects
2024-12-15 20:50:00
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ponybeine :
Crazy how you just opened my eyes. You described step by step what happened with my ex. It felt like I was trying to fill two roles: myself, and a mediator between my and their feelings. Exhausting.
2025-01-31 02:43:41
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williamkaplan72 :
Best luck I’ve had is “My brain doesn’t see one thing. My brain sees a hundred tiny events. I’m asking to figure out where I went wrong here.” Roughly 1/3 of the time they give an honest effort that may or may not be successful. 33% is better than 0% 🤷♂️
2024-12-15 17:25:30
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