"You became very good at imagining love that did not exist." That was my marriage and most of my friendships.
2025-01-14 16:14:44
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Momo :
I’ve done 4 EMDR sessions and suddenly it’s so easy to drop one sided love
2025-01-13 06:55:45
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Jen :
became very good at imaginging love that did not exist 💔
2025-01-14 22:00:46
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Amairany Zavala ❤️ :
"you became very good at imagining love that does not exist." how dare you. 🙂
2025-01-15 21:06:26
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Priscilla :
you date someone for who they are, not for their potential!!! I wish someone told me that forever ago😭
2025-01-15 18:23:53
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RaeNan 🎀 :
Wow. And you didn’t even hold my hand 😒
2025-01-15 13:53:07
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Kara :
I do have quite an imagination ✨😭
2025-01-16 01:01:43
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Heidi T :
One helpful step is to change your narrative from "Why did they..." to "I don't like that they..." Change the narrative on every "Why" and your perspective will start to expand.
2025-01-15 13:49:41
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hhmmhm hm :
Common fawn response from childhood abuse and/or emotional neglect too. You learn that putting your needs aside and going above and beyond to please them might give you a sliver of affection
2025-01-16 20:25:39
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Ashley2018 :
Yep. Had to self soothe when there was someone who was physically, but not emotionally present.
2025-01-13 01:58:28
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HagosMama :
Ooof. You could have said something before you ripped that bandaid off!
2025-01-14 05:02:05
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Caitlinthinks :
Jesus that was brutal (ly true)
2025-01-14 03:43:15
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That Midwestern Mom :
I wish I had heard this ages ago, because if I hadn’t ended up with my ex-husband, I would’ve ended up with someone exactly like him.