@artfulrider: #stitch with @Andrew what’s up with #poly “relationships” - are yall okay? #fyp #polyamorous #relationships

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danniwiththesauce
danniwiththesauce :
The concept of solo poly is like…..just single and dating right?
2025-01-15 23:05:38
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strawberrybnnuy
berry :
wait, ur not wrong. its basically like collecting pokemon nowadays
2025-01-15 22:28:59
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bwordjones
mads :
Bestie you dropped this 👑👑👑
2025-01-15 18:48:41
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frances.115
maryfrances :
Fr I got told I just “need to get more boyfriends” like no? I don’t want more? I want one loyal one lol
2025-01-15 23:11:35
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kramerlindsley
Kramer Lindsley :
There is a polyamorous couple in my partners friend group that are the most flaky, unreliable people to their actual friends because of this.
2025-01-16 17:28:56
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pyxellated
Pyxellated :
True, and maybe I just don’t understand them but gosh, I can’t think of any way for poly people to love each partner *deeply* yk? For me, loving one person takes up so much time because he is THE Loml
2025-01-15 22:31:19
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tazjourney
Taz Journey :
I think it feels less intimidating for them to go in with an agreement that the relationship isn't that deep. They think they won't be hurt. But that's not how feelings work.
2025-01-15 21:59:50
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es.ss1
Es :
Ugh I always give them a chance bc I like to give ppl a chance but it always ends bad, my last poly friend(ex friend now) cut me off bc I didn’t want to open up MY relationship to sleep with them😭
2025-01-15 23:04:33
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giant_robot
Chris :
I just assumed it's because it's getting expensive out here and maybe a two income household is no longer enough 😂
2025-01-15 22:47:23
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awkwardbunnie
AwkwardBunnie :
I’m poly, (obvious I know lol) but both my relationships we are very committed and close, but I do think in a lot of (like Reddit poly) think being enmeshed and committed is inherently wrong.
2025-01-16 01:03:40
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cj_em
Anonymoss :
No really bc some weeks it feels like my husband and I barely get time to connect.. how does anyone have time for MORE than 1!?!? Plus, I also need adequate alone time lol. Who has time for that?!?!
2025-01-16 15:33:37
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valets9
valerya :
I work in family court, have sat through about 1,000 divorce and custody trials in a few years. Seen it end badly countless times, especially with the poor gd kids.
2025-01-16 13:28:46
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emmatrible
Emma Trible :
I’ve noticed that too to the point feels like open cheating. It’s something I’ve been trying to understand; I ask to understand poly/open in general to understand better. I don’t understand the hiding
2025-01-17 13:44:04
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maggielouise17
MaggieLou :
As a person who practices solo-poly/relationship anarchy, this is basically that lol. But I am also open to commitment, and in a committed relationship. All my connections are meaningful on some way
2025-01-17 02:04:01
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beans_9931
beans9931 :
im in middle shcool there is about 6 difrent love triangles going through 2 difrent schools, love triangle is a stretch its more like a love square with lose ends💀
2025-01-17 04:22:37
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morphinequeenx
⛧✨🌙✨ ⛧ :
The one “poly” person I knew didn’t like being poly when their partners (or anyone) liked me but if they liked anyone else it was ok
2025-01-18 23:54:51
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jstarjay5
jaspergasper :
poly person here. from what I've seen, alot of people just find monogamy stifling and unfitting of their needs, but its important to point out that poly relationships aren't a magical best of (1/?)
2025-02-18 16:33:32
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klgw99
klgw99 :
I think a lot of people don't know how to handle their emotions when they get too serious so they want another person they can fall back on when their first one eventually fails.
2025-01-16 05:32:49
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kmcguin94
Kelton McGuinness 🏳️‍⚧️🇯🇴 :
I had to put in my bio “If you’re in a relationship already I’m not interested.” My likes went significantly down 😭😭😭
2025-01-16 01:53:31
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tlg.kivglyon
KivgLyon :
Duos is always better than trios. Better comms that way. Less sweats to worry about to.
2025-01-16 10:07:20
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etta_jones_33
Etta :
I don't understand why so many people are so concerned about relationships they aren't even involved in. 🤷🏻‍♀️
2025-03-03 18:26:02
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babyhoneycomb
Teresa D Anderson :
people think dating means you have to be in a bf/gf so that's why people want to be in poly relationships is because they would like to date multiple people but there's no such thing as dating anymore
2025-01-17 21:11:42
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mickey.s_sunflowerpatch
Mickey :
I tried it once cause of a guy was into it and I was like…👏this is exhausting and anxiety inducing because I’m naturally monogamous and they were low commitment asf. -100/10 would not do again EVER
2025-01-16 01:06:05
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pekej_stan
jelly :
i think it’s the fear of full commitment or the fear of pain. it’s harder to avoid pain when you’re completely monogamous because it’s only one person. it’s harder to be emotionally immature and make
2025-01-16 16:41:25
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jeff0ui
Jeffers :
So so many in my experience will redefine their entire identity if it means not having to be single, but don’t want to like be in or participate in a meaningful relationship that might take effort
2025-01-16 01:00:12
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