@relationshipswithaly: Maybe it’s the shame of messing up. Maybe it’s that you don’t think talking about it will help. Whatever the reason keeping you from acknowledging your part, toss it out. Taking accountability will help you partner move on, trust you, and have hope for change. P.S. This is a skit. Every conversation about this topic will look different, this is just to give you some ideas. Disclaimer: IG is not therapy. This content is for educational and entertainment purposes only. This will not apply to everyone. #communication #therapy #therapistsofinstagram #couplestherapy #couple #dating #marriage #marriageadvice #mft #mentalhealth #wellness #love #problemsolving #negotiation #conflictresolution #
It's really that simple, and yet it's like talking to a brick wall sometimes
2025-01-24 14:20:03
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user7849450136689 :
You get an apology?
2025-01-24 13:00:21
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Shannon :
Ya he talks about it 5 times because of extended lack of accountability. People need to feel seen heard and understood and going too long without that creates fear in the relationship. Hence over comm
2025-03-20 02:39:03
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Rise_To_Be_King :
Why is it sooooo hard to get accountability?!
2025-01-25 21:01:40
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BeefyFrog :
You guys get apologies? I got screamed at for mentioning that something hurt me. Then the silent treatment until I apologized for feeling hurt.
2025-01-25 11:48:32
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Metatranka :
When she say…”I will try, but..” that means bad sign. Give some time and post about it
2025-01-26 18:57:41
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Made The Mark :
It’s 30 mins long because it’s always you did this wrong and if it was a hey I am sorry I did this. Then maybe we could heal from it. Instead the feeling lingers until we can get over it. Could be day
2025-03-22 16:21:28
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Achilldra :
biggest red flag ever, if you're saying sorry, sorry and you didn't actually do anything wrong and they refused to acknowledge how they're hurting you run
2025-03-21 21:54:38
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CTZ :
Ooooo weeeee
2025-01-26 02:49:11
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brewsmack :
if they owned up to it, if they were actually aware, it wouldnt come up 5 times 😔
2025-02-20 19:30:16
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pwlot :
yes...
2025-01-24 00:36:26
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Jaymes The Cat :
An apology is fine without verbal acknowledgment, as long as the behavior being apologized for stops. That’s the only thing that matters.
2025-01-27 22:08:44
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Stephanie :
The female character lacks accountability and is shifting the responsibility of managing their feelings and the relationship. It’s unhealthy and misleading for anyone who genuinely wants to change.
2025-02-28 02:46:44
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Sophie🌙✨ :
Also awareness and accountability with actioning for change are different things
2025-02-17 10:11:57
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Stranded Shrimp :
My gf would say “I’m so sorry you feel that way”
2025-02-08 09:44:38
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jack. :
that's me, i know it might be overwhelming but i can't stand it when they dont recognize what they did, and god knows why i cant stop talking about it
2025-03-16 21:18:20
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ATAR1x :
If she did smth to hurt him, what makes her think she gets to decide when the apology becomes too long and draining?
2025-03-13 09:19:55
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RandomInternetGuy :
literally my ex wife when I confronted her about an affair. "yeah, I messed up, it happened........." gonna say sorry or make up for it? nope
2025-03-05 08:41:59
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Omar 🇨🇦 :
I lived with someone who did not even do the first part.
2025-02-21 04:45:53
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Leon Metzger :
Wow both sides seem so hard and difficult to do 🙈
2025-02-28 18:18:34
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call me Levi :
smart
2025-01-25 03:12:17
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paullambert213 :
oh you'll get a I'm sorry but it's more like I'm sorry you feel that way but I did nothing wrong
2025-01-28 21:09:56
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Alexander Rosas :
Ahhh okay I see now
2025-01-29 08:31:03
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KJ :
Acknowledgement of what she was doing or had done, or even just acknowledging my feelings about certain things could have helped our relationship survive.
2025-01-25 19:17:49
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Matt A. :
I hate being stuck in this circle.
2025-01-25 11:26:16
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