@relationshipswithaly: What conversation hacks help you and your partner stay connected during a tough conversation? 💜For partners who lean towards avoidant communication, knowing they’ll have some time to process can help them stay present. 💜For partners who lean toward anxious communication, reassuring physical touch during silence can help them feel more calm. In the Paired app, we have loads of conversation starters to help you navigate these moments. Head to our link in bio to try it out!
great tip. I’ve never tried it but as an avoidant I can assure you that 10 minutes is not enough and all I would be doing in those 10 minutes is thinking of ways to defend myself
2025-02-02 00:09:53
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jdubdev :
YES please a break. Because when it usually goes for hours I’m bracing for the all nighter
2025-01-30 17:30:59
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Thekilllerj456 :
Okay I'll go to a therapist finally.....
2025-01-31 19:03:21
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juweniq :
… all that you will get during these 10 minutes is, ”I don’t know”!
2025-03-09 15:02:17
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hannah :
love this! but how can you do this if you are long distance?
2025-04-17 18:03:35
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Vincent 🥤 :
Great tip but how you do it in long distance ?
2025-02-10 12:33:26
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Boss Kitty ☆ :
I wish it was soo easy
2025-02-20 19:53:28
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worthitall820 :
I’m still going to try this with my husband
2025-02-07 16:24:46
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Let’sGrowTogetherBook :
♥️💯love this
2025-02-10 04:19:54
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Emjie :
@Aaron
2025-02-19 08:38:06
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Gretchen Robertson :
❤️
2025-03-02 20:34:09
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theresaskonieczny :
💯
2025-02-21 12:40:14
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3d Prints by Abe :
🥰
2025-02-18 15:04:25
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Liam :
@snuggyy123
2025-02-09 23:08:00
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Mary :
❤️❤️❤️❤️
2025-02-09 22:02:42
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bluemoon39452 :
@Shay Babi Breland
2025-02-01 13:50:02
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chad :
avoidants are the worst type of people honestly
2025-02-02 20:44:51
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Stranded Shrimp :
This is the reason why I had to breakup with my gf last month. She runs away from problems or acts like they don’t exist. Never wants to discuss issues or solve anything. Gets overwhelmed by everyth
2025-02-02 00:55:47
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Missy D :
You can’t even have this convo lol 😂😭
2025-02-24 23:56:41
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jessica :
I’m down…but im going to need you to not touch me too…bc ahhhhhhh!
2025-02-21 04:22:34
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rain222 :
I want to see yall make ouy
2025-02-01 18:40:38
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VannelGC :
It happened exactly the same to me with my hubby but also he said that I said many things while we talk & he cannot think on everything, so I suggested him to use a notebook and write. ThankstheAdvice
2025-02-24 10:57:59
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Leslie :
Avoidants won’t even have this conversation. They don’t understand why you react the way you do! They are fixed in not to hear you and when they run they won’t be thinking about resolution.
2025-02-09 13:31:26
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