@thematthewhussey: If someone does something that makes you unsure of them or their intentions, instead of obsessing over whether it’s a red flag or not, use it as an “amber light.” An amber light is an invitation to the kind of honest conversation you might normally be afraid to have. And this conversation will either become a green light (keep going) or a red light (get out) depending on how someone responds. We need to have more challenging conversations in life. That’s how our love life (and every other part of our life) is going to get better.