@_joshuarosa: No more expectations of or from them. Manipulation is when they try to control The narrative and your emotions by making the problem you. Their goal is to put the blame on you so that is easy to just use you as a scapegoat, then it would ever be to take accountability and change the things that they’ve done to you. We need to realize that it is impossible to change someone’s mind when they are in this manner, you will never be able to convince them to take ownership for what they’ve done. The only answer and solution is distance. #selflovequotes #selflove #motivation #motivational #relationshipadvice #healing #creatorsearchinsights
So what do u do when they call u a div in the problem and on the next move he says he never said that and I’m thinking it and making me question myself and saying I said I’m a div but I never said it all 🤷🏻♀
2025-10-14 01:36:53
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tactic14 :
the moment you leave them and move on, they come again asking for a re-back after realizing that you were so important to them and that rareness in you they can't find it out there!
2025-02-08 05:21:30
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Habu Bee 🇦🇹 :
Gaslighting…. Narcissistic behavior
2025-02-06 22:08:15
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RyGuy :
What if I do take accountability and want to resolve but I do ask them to not yell at me, call me names, shutdown, etc? I want constructive. I’ve made mistakes but I want to grow and learn without…
2025-03-08 21:30:27
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U🪬🧿 :
yes! only way stop this is not to respond.It took me a while to learn, but it's the only way.
2025-02-02 14:34:08
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madrid :
imagine getting blamed for everything wrong in the relationship while your the only one trying lol. you still take your part of accountability but ~ get 0 from them & they play victim to everyone
2025-04-08 23:52:43
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Relentless Pursuit :
Whenever I raised a problem I became the problem. Anyone feel that? It's not you. Dont believe it
2025-02-23 22:57:01
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Nothando Khumalo :
Manipulators never take accountability
2025-02-18 10:35:14
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Crystal 🇨🇦🍁 :
Yes yes yes!
2025-02-02 22:25:01
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Trevor Saint Germain :
yep, no accountability. Cant acknowledge we both made mistakes.
2025-02-02 21:14:09
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Dulce M :
My bf always blame n me how I react after he accused me for things I never do. He always say I need help I’m the problem.
2025-04-06 21:35:34
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LaPerla_Domi :
My grandmother said, guilt is ugly and no one wants to carry it.
2025-02-25 00:16:58
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Stephen Calip :
yeah🥰
perfectly said
2025-03-05 21:03:23
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Nensi :
I had this situation, that persone was in a relationship and between us was lots of atraction and desire. Whrn my feelings grew more, I said I feel like this its painful i have to leave. Respond was
2025-02-02 22:44:34
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Conchita❣️ :
Reminds me of my ex 👏
2025-02-03 04:59:23
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Grow Coaching :
yes it's about them not taking accountability for their actions.
2025-02-03 01:44:30
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Amelia :
oh this is 1000% my situation now
2025-02-02 19:36:21
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rose_22.10.12.14 :
So how do I stop it when it’s a family member
2025-02-17 08:16:31
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kihew 🦅 iskwew💜 :
this is totally true and more ppl need to know this
2025-02-02 22:13:14
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Jaz :
Right!imagine calling some1 a victim after speaking about them, lying, video recording them, and saying awful things to your face. All the while u tried to stay out the way as much as possible
2025-03-26 19:44:51
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Kofi Junior🩶 :
Why does it hurt tho?????
2025-02-03 03:29:48
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fofofo495 :
Finally someone shared my thoughts wow ,
i am not crazy 💔💔💔Thank you 🙏
2025-02-04 21:59:07
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Amy Kapalko ✨ :
I compliment them & stay silent and away from them. 🙏 I keep my distance from a manipulation and control. They are usually bipolar, don't remember what they said and have substance abuse.
2025-07-23 17:18:33
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onewayticket :
that's what I'm doing now,it's pointless to even say anything or object to anything (like I have no right) she just turns things around and puts blame on me, sooooo I keep quiet
2025-02-07 10:57:08
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