@claireauden: "I'm sorry if after living through abuse, you are now having to live with people's judgements of how you responded to the abuse" #narctok #covertnarcissist #narcissisticrelationshiprecovery #narcissisticabuse #npdabuse #narcissist #narcissisticrelationship #npd #abusiverelationship #abuseawareness #abusiverelationshipawareness #traumabond #traumabonding
It is exhausting. I just stopped explaining. I just removed myself to protect my peace.
2025-02-04 13:58:55
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FrugalChef :
I dont have to justify my actions and explain anything to anyone..I have peace of mind and I know the truth that is all that matters to me..
2025-02-04 05:32:44
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5 0🌲 :
This is a good one. I get this all the time.
2025-02-04 02:12:58
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Grace's Mom :
Omg yes. This is rough
2025-02-04 06:17:36
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cherbud61 :
Lately all I keep hearing is let it go and or acceptance
2025-02-04 07:04:51
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dreadedkate :
I got blamed by my family for being abused
2025-02-04 15:59:37
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lucillemcdonald7 :
yep i have court today against abuser already ready for the judgment
2025-02-04 12:52:09
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Lou 💜 The Complete You 💜 :
I didn't know I was until I got out, only just realising the extent now after 7 years out!
2025-02-04 13:16:37
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user3389635403444 :
I shared just a little bit and was met with “was it really that bad”. That put me over the edge of acceptable behavior. My trauma response to that was a complete and utter rage response.
2025-02-04 02:16:10
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neen’s :
I find people so judgmental and insensitive x
2025-02-04 13:56:11
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jb :
Thank you for saying it 🙏🏼
2025-02-04 17:34:42
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Sharon Clarke :
you dealt with it the best way you could ❣️
2025-02-04 13:46:52
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Kates_restart1124 :
I never went forward because everyone I told had uncaring barely believed me reactions and the thought of convincing anyone else ie the police was overwhelming
2025-02-04 08:52:35
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Erica :
That’s what my family does is my reaction to what they do I am the problem of a family. I asked him to stop doing something to stop talking about me a
2025-02-04 14:39:35
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Author J.D. Hill :
Absolutely. This type of judgement made it so much harder for me to recover. I actually had to go no contact with some of those people.
2025-02-04 02:46:51
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Sunshine. :
also how I'm healing from it and how I'm taking my time to
2025-02-04 10:20:23
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Jessa Connor :
Uggh yes 🙌
2025-02-04 06:18:20
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Ruth 🙏🏼⚔️🛡️🎒🪽🥾 🙏 :
I am proud of myself for using wisdom in leaving and overcoming the judgement. I finally stood up for myself.
2025-02-04 01:58:40
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henna 🤍 :
This. 💯
2025-02-04 14:52:03
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::Zofia::K:: :
absolutely this
2025-02-05 12:09:35
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Bi.Ma.Ca :
It’s so true, belittling and blaming for the reaction are a way for them to perpetrate the abuse
2025-02-04 14:57:21
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K1-Soph.x :
It’s always “your so stuck in the past” 🥺
2025-02-04 18:26:29
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Kellsss 💚 :
Thank you, I needed to hear this 💜
2025-02-04 16:30:01
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KayKay :
There is so little or nothing for survivors to help them after they have managed to escape to learn how to live again and how long it takes. Thank you for sharing this
2025-02-04 15:34:16
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