@kirbymcfarland_: Drop off and pick up - step parent thoughts. #stepmom #stepdaughter #bonusmom #bonusdaughter #stepmomstories #stepmomtiktok #coparenting
My kids bonus mom shows up because she knows I cannot stand him 🥰. Love her!
2025-02-18 00:08:29
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KB :
My stepmom was the one who picked me up all the time, she was the only reason I saw my dad or got invited to any family events because he’s very out of sight out of mind when it comes to me….
2025-02-18 00:43:31
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savedbygrace_faith7 :
I told her I like her there😂
2025-02-19 02:42:42
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Boy mom :
My husband wants me there that why I go
2025-02-19 11:23:48
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bratland :
if you do have a high conflict co-parent in the situation just don't do pickups if she doesn't want you there she doesn't want you there if he doesn't want you there he doesn't want you there
2025-02-18 17:06:28
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Regan :
My kids stepmom does most pickups because dad is at work.. And because I like her better than I like him. 🤣
2025-02-18 08:18:11
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SC MommaBear :
I pray my ex husband finds a woman like you 😩
2025-02-19 20:42:35
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Cam :
The aggressive “I love her” is so real 😂
2025-02-18 00:39:31
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Hayley Pendergrass :
Girl same! 🥰
2025-02-18 22:06:16
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Alyssa Storrs :
respectful obsession is a dream from a bio mom.
2025-02-20 05:59:11
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Hannah ❤️ :
My son’s bonus mom shows up and I love it when she doesn’t I get mad. She listens she communicates she HELPS me so I can’t stand when she’s not at pick up/drop off
2025-02-19 15:57:19
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Emerald Daydream :
If there was ever going to be a stepmom in my daughter’s life this is the dynamic I would hope to have. Comfortable and loving 💞
2025-02-18 23:45:32
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༯𝕂𝕒𝕥𝕖𝕝𝕪𝕟𝕟࿎ :
I pray my ex finds someone who loves him and our kids this way. Kids deserve this love💖
2025-02-19 17:36:53
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Valerie 📚❤️🔥🔮 :
I’ve always assumed my child’s step mom came to drop off for the reason you said because that’s the reason I went to drop off for my bonus kids.
2025-02-18 12:09:33
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ado02 :
Exactly the kind of adults we need to be for children!!!
2025-02-18 14:33:50
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Martha :
I had a stepmom who just truly loved me and it was such a huge bonus in life!!
2025-02-18 11:44:45
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ValentineDoll :
Also, some people are crazy and extra eyewitnesses are helpful 😂
2025-02-18 04:19:27
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ZNL :
I wish it were like this. I have so much anxiety dealing with biomom.
2025-02-19 16:47:27
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Dwight Jordan :
😁
2025-05-15 06:06:05
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Dwight Jordan :
🥰
2025-05-15 06:06:07
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Dwight Jordan :
😂
2025-05-15 06:06:04
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Dwight Jordan :
😁
2025-05-15 06:06:03
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Dwight Jordan :
🥰
2025-05-15 06:06:03
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Dwight Jordan :
🥰
2025-05-15 06:06:05
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Leny :
Girly I don’t think u understand how weird that sounds
2025-02-18 16:47:51
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Heather :
And that’s on being an excellent bonus Mom! ❤️
2025-02-17 23:14:08
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Jenny Mazky :
It’s been 14 years of drop offs and pick ups here…and same. He is part of my world, and I miss him every second I don’t see him
2025-02-18 01:11:06
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LeaaaK :
Yes! Exactly! My SO asks me to go as a buffer because he never knows what kind of mood BM is going to be in but we’re so excited to see each other as soon as the little gets in the car!
2025-02-17 21:43:02
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Ava 🖤 :
I love you for this. My kids stepmom is my childhood best friend, I don’t even talk to my ex anymore 😂 her being my best friend sucked in the beginning, but it’s fine now lol
2025-02-18 12:24:45
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Chariety :
This!!!! Some of us just really love our step kids! I get as excited to see them as I do my biological girls!
2025-02-18 02:52:18
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Lauren Brooke :
Bonus moms like you are what we need in the world! Coming from a bio mom with a high conflict coparenting situation, this is such a breath of fresh air
2025-02-19 01:46:56
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ashley :
It’s almost like… we have the best interest of the child at heart 🤔 imagine that.
2025-02-18 15:31:49
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Amber H :
I am so thankful for my sons bonus mom!
2025-02-18 14:33:15
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Ali Black :
Exactly! I just love her. Also, it is convenient. We are getting dinner after, so of course I’m there. Like her mom is the least of my concerns.
2025-02-18 11:22:12
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kmarie :
I love the convos. My baby is in 9th grade so she cannot wait to tell me all the tea when we pick her up. She may forget some important details if she has to wait until they get home to tell me 😂😂
2025-02-18 02:02:23
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LegosInMyCoffee :
My son’s step mom loves him like she birthed him and I expect her to be there. No questions asked. The amazing kiddo has 3 parents and I am forever thankful for her.
2025-02-18 02:00:51
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Rachel Truesdale :
She’s got you wrapped around her tiny little finger in the best way! The cuteness aggression is top tier
2025-02-18 01:51:33
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jk_lifes_too_short :
I’m always happy to see and talk to my exs girlfriend. She makes coparenting so much better. She’s always so happy to see my kids. Makes me feel so much better as their mom.
2025-02-18 01:46:19
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alxxabe11e :
honestly you sound like the stepmother every mom wants for their baby.
2025-02-18 01:22:04
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jessicajessica20042 :
This is so beautiful! That is one loved kid 🥺
2025-02-18 01:09:35
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amandacamp :
I hope that someday my son’s father finds someone like you! 💙
2025-02-18 00:51:02
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It’s Mel :
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
2025-02-17 23:51:30
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Lex :
I show up because bio mom and I coparent lol. My husband hardly talks to bio mom. It’s just us communicating and it’s what works for us.
2025-02-19 03:44:25
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MamaChaos92 :
Do I want to go? Absolutely not!! I swear HCBMs negative energy can be felt across the parking a lot. But I go bc my SD insists I go so she can spend that extra time with me.
2025-02-18 23:08:37
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hay.hoffman :
I go with my husband so my step kiddo has a safety net (me) in case HCBM gets hostile
2025-02-18 21:34:26
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Rachel Francis :
Me: school drop off and pick up, right, shes a bonus parent she should be helping with school drop off and pick u…..ooooooooohhhhhh
2025-02-18 17:42:33
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𝐸𝑙𝑙𝑚𝑎𝑒 Ü :
YAAAAAS!!! I meant to stitch that persons video a while ago! Because I would go for that as well as just being company for my husband for the ride especially when we needed to travel from RI to Maine
2025-02-18 16:16:11
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Happy_Claire89 :
I don’t understand the animosity my kids mom comes to our house and us to hers and we just do everything together.. the whole bs with hcbm is just immature
2025-02-18 15:36:10
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.m.461 :
If my step wife isn’t picking our kids up I’m gonna bitch about it 🥰
2025-02-18 09:18:37
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