@dr..angelica.shie: I have seen this kid as a #child and as a #grownup, and they are much more #sensitive than meets the eye, high risk for #borderlinepersonalitydisorder; They look #avoidant, but they fear #defectiveness and abandon ability underneath their #passivity and #anger. Not #trauma, just a #rigid brain with no active #attunement. #childdevelopment #disorganizedattachment #avoidantattachment

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jennalynnthayer
Jenna 🌸 :
Wow
2025-06-30 04:25:08
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laprofesorabet
Inglés con Bet :
as someone with ADHD, I've always thought I'm so spontaneous, laid back and adaptable.... but now I'm realizing I actually have SO much rigid thinking!! this was very insightful, thank you 💛
2025-02-26 08:00:23
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urmomiscuterthan.u
catherine ballenger :
This makes so much sense, all of the sources I see say that a disorganized attatchment style is only from abuse but I have adhd which definitely made me extra sensitive to the smaller things
2025-04-30 03:26:25
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abzlovescats
Abs :
This is so me rigid thinking and cptsd have made me feel so alone
2025-02-25 20:30:38
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sam.s515
Sam :
Holy hell this is me. My mother, bless her heart, I think tried to fix immediately and not talk about what happened. And my dad was never though so 🤷
2025-03-16 23:30:00
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excusememissmls
Mich Elle :
😔 how do we heal from this as an adult with little support? I isolate to keep myself safe.
2025-03-02 17:27:48
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oksavanna
Savanna 🍉 :
Oh god this is so me
2025-02-25 20:59:12
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nursemamacubana
NurseMamaCubana :
Yep this is me
2025-02-25 19:58:03
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cheersandspirits
cheersandspirits :
Oooooh. I could be a little more of this than anxious.
2025-02-26 06:38:32
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lucyyumyum
lucyyumyum :
how do we help partners overcome this?
2025-02-26 09:06:17
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mindfulmess_85
@mindfulmess_85 🇿🇦 :
what do you do if you're the adult version of that child?
2025-03-11 16:16:32
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floresyanira8
floresyanira8 :
I was that and am that kid 😔 any other tips?
2025-02-27 00:48:52
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csymmmie
Caroline :
Can you say more about the characteristics of the various attachment pathologies? I’m largely secure now but have an ACE score of 8 so there’s always room to improve haha
2025-03-03 08:18:19
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calichronicles
Cali Chronicles :
I'm married to him. he's gotten better over the last decade because of modeling, but still believes what he feels is true, regardless of facts.
2025-02-27 05:58:36
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jacksuntwenty1
jackSunTwenty1 :
“You just need to grow up and get on with it”
2025-03-24 13:13:46
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watchmewhitwhit
watchmewhitwhit :
I am like this and one of my boys is like this. 😩
2025-02-26 04:33:43
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c0nsistentlyinconsistent
ᓚᘏᗢ Kelly 🖤 :
🥰
2025-06-01 04:13:53
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ruby_sabre_
ruby_sabre_ :
🥰🥰🥰
2025-04-06 20:39:05
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finalusername
Mel :
😍
2025-04-02 02:58:08
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emmertonp
emdogmillionaire :
🙂🙂🙂
2025-03-13 09:37:14
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megan.buck.23
Megan Buck :
🤣🤣🤣
2025-03-04 05:34:41
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almostentropy2
AlmostEntropy :
OMG. You've just explained my mom. I couldn't figure out her unique intersection of highly masked autism and emotional immaturity. She's TERRIFIED of being bad and thus can't talk about ANYTHING 🥺
2025-02-28 22:41:23
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amantle.maro
amantle.maro :
adhd and ocd comorbidity?
2025-03-16 09:17:55
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Nathan Jean :
6months ago, I got my first yeast infection from taking antibiotics, it kept recurring & frustrating. After I used herbs, I was completely cured-both the yeast infection & HSV @Dr Agbonifo
2025-03-04 03:12:10
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