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user986851276896
user986851276896 :
Starting a relationship with a girl asking that shows there’s already problems. She’s already trying to compete with mom, especially on a first day why would a rando date come first.
2025-03-06 05:31:26
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niccol.anthoni1
Niccolò Anthoni :
@Niccolò Anthoni:i need a wife
2025-03-11 18:42:54
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r33asx
user4278501238201 :
I’m calling back whoever called me first.
2025-04-07 02:13:19
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tobias_carnage
Tobias_Carnage :
Mum's always first.
2025-03-04 23:17:50
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jbyyyyyh
JB :
If it hurts after longer than 10 minutes that could be a sign of something bad internally that’s not normal.
2025-03-05 05:28:38
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rck278
Rck278 :
He lied through his teeth! If my mom called me there is def something wrong other wise she is texting me & she is 65!
2025-03-14 16:10:04
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damo2096
user8653176012156 :
That’s Ben John’s sister!
2025-03-05 12:48:51
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missdaynuh
DAYNA :
Omg it’s Hannah Johns!
2025-03-05 18:11:01
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matthewweilnau
Matthew Weilnau :
if we married or about to be married you the priority before then my mom takes priority sorry not sorry
2025-03-04 21:24:58
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elijaht223
Elijah the simple guy :
I need a white girl to date ☺️, am tired of being single.
2025-04-05 14:32:58
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black_bubbles01
E.Dablew :
what happened to the other girl?
2025-04-19 23:15:38
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elfamystica
Elfa Mystica Hand Poked Tattoo :
“ anything longer than 20min just starts to hurt” - girl im so sad for you.. you’ve never experienced earth shattering experiences that last 4-6 hours … with just breaks for snacks and water lol 😆
2025-03-06 14:39:46
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big_joy_james
JOY❤️🌈 :
I need someone real don’t wanna know who you’re
2025-03-06 23:56:51
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keebo84
Kevin :
Calling/answering her first because it takes a while to set up the Ouija board for my Mom… so… 😁
2025-04-04 21:38:26
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mr_platinum8
Mr. champ89 :
That’s funny yes, the mom can definitely wait. That’s what you gotta tell yourself who’s more important at that moment.@
2025-03-08 20:08:39
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jimmylee1237
jimmylee1237 :
no longer than 20 minutes that's disappointing. what is happening to these women
2025-03-08 01:13:28
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godvalley610
Germa⁶⁶93 :
30min not enough
2025-03-05 07:07:50
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roneelp1
Ronnie :
I’m calling my mom first 😂😭 and texting you what’s going on 😭😩
2025-03-05 05:14:10
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therealgrew
Username :
😭😭😭
2025-03-06 21:46:47
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sarahstruebing
user7710942016179 :
😂😂😂
2025-03-05 18:30:19
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mohampupgjn
Mohammed :
😂
2025-05-04 10:08:32
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c_a006
. :
😂😂😂
2025-04-08 14:10:32
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nickziegler246
Nick Ziegler :
👀👀👀
2025-04-08 02:08:49
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rob.jones590
Rob Jones :
🎅🏻
2025-04-01 23:00:10
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I made it through the darkest season of my life but parts of me still operate like I’m back there. Like joy can feel unfamiliar at times.
Peace doesn’t always feels safe.
And ease often feels suspicious. It’s uncomfortable learning how to feel good again when you’ve spent years just trying to make it through the day but the shift is happening. I feel it, see it and believe it. 
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