what if I was evil, intentionally off putting and malicious
2025-03-20 21:33:16
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Molly🐐 :
what if I was accidentally not kind, friendly, and respectful and I didn't know
2025-03-20 19:15:59
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weltmeister_superstar :
but if I feel that to be myself I should be more rude ?
2025-05-19 21:41:59
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Del-yeet[me].exe :
you a real one. learning and growing
2025-03-20 00:17:01
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Dani :
Strong disagree. There is genuine value to being charismatic and sociable. Now obviously this is a skill that needs to be built but it shouldn't be completely neglected
2025-03-20 02:30:56
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alesia :
oh that's smart
2025-03-21 21:34:08
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Bbg gojo 4evr :
Struggling with the FRIENDLY part 😭
2025-04-24 18:43:53
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nayalia :
I feel like im accidently rude all the time
2025-03-22 08:23:38
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Kal :
1. I appreciate this viewpoint but a small note, to us with the autism this might be a bit harder to go by as people act as if we were kind, friendly and respectful but they actually think the
2025-03-20 22:10:26
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🌸 :
what if I was but other people didn't perceive that. 😔
2025-03-23 05:10:14
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martine skaret :
but im anxious that im not kind respectful or friendly enough
2025-03-20 20:58:51
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FlickaDaFlame :
Idk how many times I've gone out of my way to be those and been told later I was rude. I genuinely don't even know anymore. Sometimes helping someone is nice, sometimes it implies they need help, idk
2025-03-21 14:30:13
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Mudhoneyy :
Ok but how do I do that I feel Like I am not friendly because I don’t smile because I’m too stressed and I don’t ask questions about people because I’m scared I’m overstepping
2025-03-20 21:33:00
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Erik :
Social anxiety is so weird, I would call someone out so fast for bad behavior, yet I taunt myself on the daily?
2025-03-20 12:53:47
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aximaroriginals :
I think the major issue for a lot of folks (me included) is that I walk away feeling uncertain if I WAS those things. The metrics of them are so subjective, and I worry I didn’t meet a standard
2025-03-21 23:42:19
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Frida Böckman :
✨This✨ Why would I value the opinion of someone who judges people for being weird or awkward or *insert insecurity here*?
2025-03-20 18:19:45
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Finlee :
What if I was kind, and respectful, but off-putting instead of friendly??
2025-03-21 07:11:24
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Morrigan :
but if they don't perceive me like kind, respectful, and friendly?
2025-03-21 09:21:51
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huye :
"friendly" is already an extremely high standard, especially if your way of socializing is bad like mine
2025-03-25 20:54:22
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maria.marianne1991 :
Don't other people with social anxiety not constantly worry that someone found them unkind, rude or disrespectful
2025-03-23 16:16:23
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Yoongi :
What if you assume that your interaction seemed disrespectful to others? Like idk I mean ppl with social anxiety make others awkward
2025-04-02 18:52:03
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Physics Chemistry :
Kind and Respectful yes, friendly is sometimes very difficult
2025-03-21 20:06:27
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moonpie :
Damn this is a pocket rule I’ll take with me!
2025-03-22 12:44:36
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