@mikeposner: A lot of men die as boys. In some traditions, a boy must kill a lion to become a man. In mine, a bar mitzvah was supposed to do the trick. It didn’t. I needed to do something hard. Something that would fundamentally change me. So I walked across America. I started on the coast of New Jersey as a boy, and I ended it at the Pacific Ocean as a man. Manhood isn’t an age. It’s earned. It’s facing the adversity that life will hand you and walking through it, step by step. Tired of feeling like a kid? Do something hard. Don't know how? Watch this video. Keep going.