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Chantal Ryder :
Oh please. It's because at 40 you have 20 years or trauma behind you. And that's more than anyone can or should take. It has nothing to do with hormones.
2025-03-28 01:10:11
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YeenSeen78 :
I don’t understand all together. I’m sure any marriage has issues here and there before menopause. What about good, supportive husbands that become a casualty of it?
2025-06-01 10:01:58
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Jamie :
By the time you get to that age you realize life is short and u stop tolerating 💩
2025-03-28 17:36:52
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Like an ice cream :
Blame it on hormones? Nah. Try - self sacrifice becomes less necessary bc the kids are grown and you can finally think of yourself 😌
2025-03-28 02:39:49
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the_reffing_realtor :
nah, alimony, half the assets and his pension is the motivation 😢
2025-03-28 08:56:36
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Wren :
I went into perimenopause at the age of 40 and entered menopause at 46. It was unbelievable how different I felt as a person. Everything about me had to change.
2025-03-28 20:38:57
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JD :
The women in the comments that say hormones have nothing to do with it, are the women who say they’re mood isn’t affected by periods, or quitting smoking, or any other no brainer. Accountability issues.
2025-05-11 02:00:50
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Tiredofthis :
it's because the kids are grown so she feels free to leave
2025-03-27 23:25:26
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Famous Amos :
I'm 44, been with my husband 21 yrs. I'm literally so tired of his negative BS. It's getting harder and harder to justify
2025-03-29 21:04:22
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R O S E M A R I E :
We start to value authenticity and no longer tolerate people who do not value us
2025-03-29 01:35:46
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Bobloblaw :
I think you can be truthful, but it doesn’t need to lead to divorce.
2025-03-28 18:58:23
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CantPolishATurd :
I silently accommodated for 10yrs n it was time for him to do some accommodating for me n he wasn’t willing to so I kicked him out. He liked taking but not giving. 🙄
2025-03-28 16:17:57
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SeaBon :
So much of our lives are dictated by centuries of biology and organic chemistry. The “hormonal veil is lifted” is such a great metaphor. Needs shift after reproduction and raising children is over.
2025-03-28 16:10:13
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Decil :
I can see how it could play a role. Not the cause, but if you have been putting up with an unhealthy or unhappy marriage and you loose your ability to put up with it, it would make sense.
2025-03-28 03:46:53
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Shannon :
PUHLEEEEEEEZEEEEEE
2025-03-28 14:45:10
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Donna :
Yes
2025-03-28 00:51:02
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Mimiof1 :
I was already divorced by the time I got into menopause. So I can’t speak to that side of it. But it was a very difficult time to go through hormonally and emotionally.
2025-03-28 00:21:38
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Clara B :
Agree and kids are grown.
2025-03-28 03:13:17
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lisamarie4855 :
You lose estrogen and start prioritizing your own happiness, like men have always done.
2025-03-28 19:57:08
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hbsbvmwkumn :
22yrs here… I can totally relate. Cost me @50K to get free through the help of @starktool Real Account 🌎 . I have peace finally .
2025-03-28 03:21:39
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DD :
I would love to see videos of how men change when their testosterone drop. I wonder if they feel like less of a man, do they have a change of mindset?
2025-03-29 03:31:28
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Josh Shadden :
Speak your truth= Shelaborating. Oh joy, yes please
2025-03-28 21:47:58
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ironmaiden :
yeah no but at forty my testerone became more than the estrogen I turned that Xtra libido into the marriage instead of seeking new so my marriage survived until his death.
2025-03-28 06:23:15
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Lynda O'Daniel :
Menopause coincidentally- not causally- occurs when you no longer have to make life choices for the benefit of children and can choose a life solely for yourself.
2025-04-22 13:01:43
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Whosthatgirl :
Or after you’ve reached a certain level of life experience you REALIZE you’ve grown tired of the BS, and start choosing YOURSELF over everyone else.
2025-03-29 06:03:26
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Victoria Laurette 🇨🇦 :
Shes saying as our estrogen lowers we are less cognitively flexible and less willing to take BS. She's not blaming hormones for divorce, just saying it's what pushes us to not stay silent about it.
2025-05-02 16:57:51
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Darklylax :
I’m clinging to my husband as my lifeline. He says it’s time for him to take care of me as I’ve done for the family the last 36 years. I pray this kind of love finds anyone that’s looking for it♥️♥️♥️
2025-04-22 21:55:18
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wickedwren82 :
Peri/Menopause doesn’t create feeling out of thin air but it will magnify perpetual repressed feelings. Menopause is like a mental/emotional awakening where you can no longer participate in denial.
2025-03-28 18:23:31
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user4103653400171 :
I was a soldier for 25 years. The war is over and I’m celebrating 🥳
2025-03-28 19:33:34
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CaidynKladder :
so what your saying is when women are in the reproductive years they're hormonal and emotional roller coasters and when menopause starts in the hormones decrease they're more logical interesting
2025-03-27 18:28:59
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CanadianGigi :
Because we’ve had enough and are less tolerant of BS. She’s ACCURATE.
2025-05-03 01:27:03
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8675309 :
We’re tired of taking care of everyone/everything but YOU
2025-04-23 13:15:39
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2lips :
for me while going through menopause, it's made me ask myself why can't others love me the way I have loved them. It made me see clearly while I needed to take care of myself
2025-05-03 20:27:45
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cheribrunning :
39 and recently moved out of the matrimonial home. Not because of my hormones; but because of his DRINKING. I AM OVER IT. 😏
2025-05-04 18:35:53
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Cyndi :
By menopause we’re done with being their mommy
2025-04-24 21:12:11
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bublerap76 :
I’m not convinced this has anything to do with hormones but the sheer weight of all the years of patriarchy & misogyny. There’s a point at which you can no longer tolerate it.
2025-05-03 14:34:27
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chillin2223 :
Premenopause, all your time is taken with work and kids. When kids r gone, you reevaluate your relationship.
2025-05-02 13:58:41
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lisakitching999 :
Many women wait until the kids are independent which coincides with menopause. Women will wait for the sake of the kids.
2025-05-02 11:20:39
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Amethyst34 🇵🇷🇨🇺💙 :
I called the matrix we’re no longer living in a fake life, a veil is lifted to see the truth we no longer in the matrix it’s powerful. It’s amazing.
2025-04-25 16:40:19
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user2102674568547 :
Kids are gone and we can finally leave the abuse. Period.
2025-04-24 18:15:32
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Tina Hayes320 :
it’s because the veil is lifted because you have put up with decades of abuse and neglect and you are OVER IT… hormones are secondary
2025-04-24 13:45:17
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laurasuperczynski :
I’ve had some years during perimenopause where I thought about divorce. Now that I’m almost to the other side of it, I’m so glad I stuck with it. My marriage has deepened, and I’m happier than I’ve…
2025-03-29 06:51:26
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Lisa 🇦🇺 :
so what she is saying is that we start acting more like men and they don't like it 🤔
2025-05-05 03:54:06
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Julie 🇨🇦 :
Zero tolerance is what I call it.
2025-05-02 15:29:48
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colettecameronminiatures :
It is like suddenly waking up and understanding that we decide how we want to be treated. We no longer have the willingness to waste our time hoping for someone to change.
2025-05-02 10:51:57
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scouser1962 :
Nah you realise that you have grown & changed & ppl around you have not & are still behaving like kids
2025-04-28 20:02:57
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Sue. :
I think it's because women get to what happens to be menopausal age and have just had enough of the bs and giving their all to everyone else and finally want to put themselves first!! ❤️👏
2025-04-27 06:18:24
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Shannon 😊 :
it's not always about "the kids are grown." we had no children. I was tired of giving love, respect, appreciation & not receiving. tired of being a mom to him, cook, maid roommate. just tired & done
2025-04-25 04:48:17
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Lisa From Texas :
I believe menopause strongly influenced my move from totally denying myself for the good of the family to i don't want another 25 years of the same. I didn't realize it when I was in it.
2025-04-24 20:28:21
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Christina Stout579 :
Or it’s more about the fact that by then the kids are gone and we can work more and have money to leave without the guilt of hurting our kids
2025-04-24 19:21:40
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🌈Athena :
Maybe it's nature. When reproductive years end or kids are grown, it doesnt make sense to have relationships with men anymore.
2025-03-28 12:22:27
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Made in Western Australia 🇦🇺 :
At 50 women are tired of doing everything for their husband and children and realize life’s too short and it’s time for “ME”
2025-05-06 12:13:31
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yvikydepesgenx :
The only thing I got a different levels of was bs tolerance; it plummeted to a big fat 0.
2025-05-05 09:29:52
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christa1465 :
Increased rate of truth, self care and freedom to be who you are…divorce is a side effect
2025-05-03 18:05:10
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shellyamith :
They didn’t divorce in 1960s and before. You get it’s cuz women didn’t have rights. Even in 80s 90s 2000s women told to grin and bear it. So if a mass amount of women are divorcing NOW it’s cuz they
2025-05-02 16:24:07
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🖤Melissa🐈⬛ :
the kids are older and we can decide what's best for us without having as much impact on them. a lustful liar kills a marriage, always. 🙄
2025-05-02 12:34:57
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Nicole Jones-Johnson :
This is so true
2025-04-26 03:23:08
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thegrimbongripper :
I watched my mom turn into a complete monster during menopause. she wasn't speaking her truth she was taking every opportunity to scream at our dad. now she's alone and nobody talks to her.
2025-04-23 21:09:35
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