@miaomiao554: I gave my sister $30,000 for her wedding. my mom said, "it's a once-in-a-lifetime event." on the day, i put on my dress and went to the venue. but the receptionist said, "the ceremony? that was yesterday." i called my sister. she laughed, "it went great! thanks for the money! i'm on my honeymoon now with mom and my husband." i said nothing--- and hung up. #reddit