@therapytothepoint: How to Stop Taking Things Personally. There is a cognitive distortion called personalization that makes you feel like it’s always your fault. But sometimes, people are just unkind. And it’s okay to say “That was on them, not me” It’s also important to take in feedback without tearing yourself down. #stoptakingthingspersonally #highlysensitiveperson #peoplepleaser #cognitivedistortions #selfhelp #selfhelptips #selfhelptiktok
Where is the line between verbal abuse and acceptable criticism?
2025-04-11 11:03:10
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Mar7112 :
Sorry doc, everything is personal, and it’s not okay to let people talk to us like that
2025-04-17 06:38:02
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MoemenSuper :
"that was on them and not on me" bro u realize that even when i say that and ik when someone's being mean its mostly cuz they're projecting it STILL hurts like crazy and i still remember some mean stuff people told me till this very day. not really a solution tbh
2025-05-26 23:14:35
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Stina :
I needed this! Thank you 😊
2025-04-11 01:28:14
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OURS. :
fyp
2025-06-27 07:34:09
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Shine_too :
or just be silent and walk away
2025-05-27 12:31:09
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CAPITAL F@XS :
it's no such thing as "constructive criticism"...it's just criticism! nothing good comes from that!
2025-04-11 15:09:58
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mnitia💜 :
Cause they project their hate and meanness onto you and make it about you
2025-05-09 16:00:07
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thoad9 :
Your videos are so helpful as you don’t just identify the issue but you provide a ‘how to fix’ the issue. So many videos on here just identify a problem but offer no solutions. Thank you 🥰❤️
2025-06-02 07:25:54
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Colleen :
I was told I put people off 🤔 no explanation, no examples. I'm supposed to just figure it out on my own
2025-07-03 13:32:16
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Lateblooms stories :
This is so helpful. Thank you 🙏
2025-04-27 21:34:37
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nfjzns :
the only thing you can do is do is TRY to do as good a job as possible. No one should find fault in that and if they do well you did your best.
2025-06-13 03:05:35
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chxxx :
I'm not strong enough to do that, and I don't have enough energy to do that 😃 (😔)
2025-05-18 17:41:36
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Jhee :
I hate how I always relate to what he says 😂
2025-06-07 12:45:53
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Serenity :
It's always a two way street, no one is more right than the other, both have value points - its the way its communicated that makes the interaction positive or negative.
2025-06-04 07:44:10
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Bare Branch :
But that just makes them become arrogant and not change anything bad about themselves
2025-07-01 02:46:48
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KAITLYN 🤍 :
I think for me I’m constantly worrying about what others think about me, constantly worrying about if they talked about me. I have quit many jobs bc one little thing goes wrong and idk how to fix it.
2025-04-25 00:24:16
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Robert Scott Ellis :
I take it personally when I am doing a workduity to slow
2025-04-16 17:34:18
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ADULTipid Budols :
Top recommendations books please🙏🙏🙏
2025-05-26 11:50:13
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Vanessa :
Could therapist diagnose things like ADHD dementia, and someone and so forth
2025-04-12 02:27:53
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MrChike :
I would appreciate you talk about the process, not the result. All you've said is sweet to the ears but not easy to do. Break down the process. Thanks
2025-04-21 16:23:49
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I :
I tried it in my previous work and they told me I’m overconfident and I shouldn’t assure myself when I’m bad at work 🔪😇
2025-04-13 09:12:50
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𝓗𝐨𝓹𝖊𝚢 ✝️ :
I’ll try my best 🥀
2025-05-20 16:38:07
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Jlope890 :
it's not necessarily the fact that u can't control something but the fact there is sentiment and trauma behind what they say. it causes u anxiety and removes ur peace.
2025-04-20 07:42:24
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Lerch :
Call out the people who are looking to get a reaction out of me. Ido it straight away.
2025-06-04 02:53:55
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