@shanboody: There’s a rigidity built into heterosexuality that no one really talks about. Straight men are constantly trying to qualify themselves—to be enough, to be man enough. And as @karamo said so beautifully: when he looks at straight men, he often sees little boys. Boys who still need to be held, loved, and seen. It’s heartbreaking... and also an invitation. What if we stopped demanding men prove themselves, and instead got curious about what’s underneath? Where do you think that pressure to "be a man" actually comes from? #LoversByShanPodcast #KaramoBrown #RedefiningMasculinity #InnerChildHealing #EmotionalIntimacy