I did this to someone too well and it landed me in mediation with hr for bullying
2025-04-17 15:04:37
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BBC :
Performative pity and malicious compliance are the best
2025-04-18 02:17:44
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Trix Rabbit :
you are awesome. I hope you come to Winnipeg ✌️😎✨
2025-05-27 20:34:23
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KarissaKatelyn :
we shall call this series, "life lessons with Lucy!"
2025-04-17 14:47:40
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Emma Alicia :
Just say "...that's embarrassing"
2025-04-17 22:25:17
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Dent :
I used to say, “Oh, then you should do it all the time so you can practice. You’ll learn in no time.” I like this better 🤣
2025-04-17 17:31:38
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🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈Dorian🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ :
I do this but, to shield me from reprisal, I get angry on their behalf. “What do you mean no one’s shown you how yet?! Who did your training? No, they tried to set you up. I’m going to HR!”
2025-04-18 00:39:29
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Henry :
The trick with this is to sound as GENUINE in your concern as possible so you don't seem like you're mocking them
2025-04-17 22:16:32
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michaeldenney :
😂genius
2025-05-14 18:40:22
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Deadbeard :
I love that term. "Performative incompetence". I am soooo using that.
2025-04-17 16:05:30
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Rex :
... yeah I'm gonna use this when I teach in the future. "Oooh you don't know how to do it? nobody taught you?? Okay, well, I'll teach you now just like I did a week ago!"
2025-04-30 02:43:07
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Jackie pants :
This can only work if the target will not harm you for the perceived humiliation
2025-04-17 14:38:54
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91B_Mechanic :
I am going to start using this response
2025-04-17 14:41:51
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David Hale :
You are so clever and funny!
2025-04-18 02:01:52
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Mrs.CaptainAmerica :
Using this as a hs teacher
2025-05-09 19:19:02
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Digital Reverence :
Omg where did you get this dress it’s gorgeous
2025-04-18 16:12:54
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Lynn :
this also works when people laugh at horrific things. "I don't get it. why is that funny?" insist when dismissed "no I really want to know why it's funny, I just don't get it. explain it to me please"
2025-04-17 22:10:46
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Sadhana ☭🇳🇵🕉️🏳️⚧️ :
im autistic id do this becauze id believe them 😭
2025-04-17 23:33:36
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Mnpigee :
I need a way to deal with the opposite: when they’re incompetent but they act like they are good at it
2025-06-03 13:23:26
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Lnzybug :
PLEASE 🙏 do more Chicago dates 😳 the prettiest of pretty pleases!!
2025-04-19 17:14:49
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jdstewie1 :
I need Lucy as my life coach
2025-04-17 14:42:19
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Nebby's Team :
I just blast the instruction in Teams and watch the fallout lol
2025-04-17 22:55:44
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Cannon Party :
whenever this happens to me, I go to their manager and because I am autistic I just sound serious, I tell them that I'm concerned about such and such coworker and how they need more training
2025-04-18 02:48:13
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MizzzManon :
when you said oh no I immediately flashed back to when you dropped something and could not pick it up 🤣🤣🤣 oh no.....
2025-04-17 21:31:52
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Julz 🇳🇿 :
I say "would you like me to teach you how so you can do it in the future?" and if they say "no" then i say "well too bad, listen up, cos I'm not your PA". Works a charm.
2025-04-19 12:24:53
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