@monstercure: When they’re kind to everyone but cold to you?The truth about dating avoidant partners#psychology #avoidanttachment #attachmenttheory

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anythingandeverythingtok
𝑴𝒖𝒅𝒂𝒏𝒈 :
I left, I quit after 2+yrs dealing with an avoidant narc. Never again.
2025-04-26 01:57:37
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bttrynppl
bttrynppl :
This is scary accurate
2025-04-21 17:45:01
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ambsssssssssss
Ambsssss :
Please understand that this is reverse anxious attachment. Avoidants crave love, like who doesn’t? But are so so scared to let someone in and then they leave …
2025-04-23 19:22:33
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mariamyth
mariamyth :
How do I trea them like a child 😅
2025-04-24 02:28:23
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johniiblazze
Richard TNT :
Freaking spot on but still they do deserve to be loved as well. They will soon see what is missing. ♡
2025-04-26 11:46:19
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gordon.lawrence1
Gordon Lawrence :
The most accurate thing about this subject. Pro tip: don’t date them. They can’t keep a partner and they will make the most secure person developing anxiety. For realz.
2025-04-22 18:51:42
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chantroeven_144
Up the hill :
I will never do that to myself again. I whish I‘d never met him. Contact chatting only. I died and remain dead, cold, indiffrend to him. No feels never again. He’s the mistake of my life!
2025-04-25 11:55:04
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bismarani303
bismarani303 :
👍Excatly I have experienced, and it’s horrible feeling to be with the toddler in adult body .🥺
2025-04-24 09:33:56
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nyornowhere1
NYORNOWHERE1 :
I already have an actual child. No thanks.
2025-04-24 00:53:29
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nahhetweakinnonb
c  :
Relationships require closeness. I just don’t understand how someone asks for the opposite of that (space), and thinks it’s normal.
2025-04-22 07:32:54
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hanalyzing
Hanna Marina :
No some prefer chatting (except maybe in the dating app in the beginning). Much easier than going on more dates, feeling the pressure and having to feel the emotions for you. And no I will not treat
2025-04-25 06:39:43
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mortydc37
mortyDc37 :
because to them you're a threat, they don't want to get hurt again
2025-04-22 22:30:44
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naya_robert
naya_robert :
when you treat them like a child they aren't physically attracted to you anymore 😂
2025-04-22 17:08:39
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user5473078078463
user5473078078463 :
Unless the avoidant commits to therapy for years…. They won’t change. No amount of love from you will change them.
2025-04-26 13:29:14
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apaideges
ME :
The most accurate thing about this subject. Pro tip: don’t date them. They can’t keep a partner and they will make the most secure person developing anxiety. For realz.
2025-04-22 07:26:56
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quyeee
Quyee :
Avoidants should stay away from relationships
2025-04-26 01:20:31
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jaye.nunamaker
Jaye Nunamaker :
very good description
2025-04-25 12:40:33
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dominik.kennen
dominik.kennen :
I just am furious that I'm not capable, it's so hard to understand how they are . At least to me.
2025-04-22 12:44:38
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geminisoflo
Geminisoflo :
Worst relationship of my life this is so accurate it’s scary it’s like I wrote this 🤯
2025-04-24 02:19:13
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invisible.shortie
theperfectgirl :
Why does this sound like my bf? Hahah 😭
2025-04-25 13:19:52
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psychohelper_
bimber :
Don't date that kind of person if you have attachment issues.
2025-04-24 20:42:46
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lilith19776
Lilith1977 :
Never again.
2025-04-25 12:22:24
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adriyonce
Adri Reneé🧿 :
The coldness part is so accurate.
2025-04-23 08:46:00
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xadv_arts
Xela’s Art de Vivre :
That applies to friends too unfortunately 🥺
2025-04-26 05:08:02
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truthseeker5782
TruthSeeker :
no!!! they are grown people just leave them just like they left you with your own problems to resolve.
2025-04-25 09:18:36
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