@insideofpodcast: Guys- is this true?? ⬇️@CJ Sparxx @Holly Wolf @NerdyNightly @claruspolaris

David :

“Don’t stop” isn’t helpful. We can’t remember what it was we did

dedfink :

it's bc a lot of men will get mad or refuse to do it anymore because they take it as a criticism. maturing is realizing you shouldn't be sleeping with them if you don't trust them enough to say how you like it but it takes experience with what you DO like before you can communicate that

SPBurke :

I am here to PERFORM. Give me DIRECTION.

theDeadxRebel :

One ex LOVED fast flicking on her cl!t and the next girl wanted sucking on hers. But she told me and thats whats important.

Call me Q :

being told what she actually wants and how I'd the way to go. I rather be a student than look like a fool and have a bad time.

Bob :

💯, and if/when I hit the spot right, please just say “keep doing that, don’t change techniques, don’t go faster, don’t go slower, just . . keep . . doing . . that.”

NINES :

Clear communication is a win-win for everybody involved

bringerofpane :

can't tell you how many instructions I've given and they didn't give a f***

m@ybeme :

I love notes bro

Benson :

this is spot on.

ADDgamer45 :

Absolutely.

Holly Wolf :

😍😍😍

Exonerous :

Rocky :

yes yes yes. I'm here for the data and the input (lol)! I'm willing to do WHATEVER works down there

ezentok :

Women are inundated with messaging that a great man "just knows" when that's just not how bodies work. Everyone is different so knowing what you like, ladies, and openly and honestly asking for it is key.

VforVinny :

some people don't feel comfortable giving direction during, which is OK but you gotta have a post-game talk about it after or you are just gonna keep getting mediocre head

picklerick :

hoo hawws are like a snowflake .. each one is diff

sunshades :

if you are in a long term relationship with a man who cares about you, and you are having bad sex. it is your fault. if you communicated, it wouldn't be bad.

nicktok :

I don’t know about most women but mine has told me “find that one spot or thing that makes me squirm, then keep doing THAT. Not some variation of that, THAT.”