God thank you. I’m currently trying to work to handle a narcissist who’s been terrorizing everyone else at work. They’re all exhausted, but none of them want to speak up and take the responsibility of handling it, and it’s making me feel like a monster for actually trying to do something about it.
2025-05-20 04:40:35
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SammaLammaDingDong :
“Withholding the consequences of their behavior is people pleasing” ‼️thank you for this
2025-05-01 20:59:09
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🫧 :
It’s me. I needed to hear this
2025-06-08 00:10:04
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Hannah Rodriguez :
I indeed needed to hear this right now cause I'm trying to establish boundaries with my friend right now. Hopefully she stops looking at me as the bad guy someday but I won't keep coming back if she doesn't realize her mistakes
2025-05-20 05:05:34
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Andrea•Think Dynamic Digital :
double standards, manipulation, lies, projecting, secrecy and gaslighting changes you.
2025-05-07 05:25:30
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Vincent :
yelling back at someone who is yelling at you...is not inappropriate behavior.
2025-05-02 22:58:33
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rosannaalexis :
That last sentence 👏
2025-05-13 16:49:39
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Dan Cicirelli :
It was me. I needed to hear this. 😞
2025-05-13 01:02:20
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LuckyFish :
Me, when I realized my depression is about 90% situational and I'm letting others influence my emotions too much.
2025-05-02 16:47:52
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takemetothesea :
expressed a boundary and they’ve ignored me for a month now, guess that friendship is over 🙃
2025-05-26 00:37:57
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kxtilinfinity :
Thank u I needed to hear this.
2025-05-16 03:55:53
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rebeccavalderrama :
When confronting my sister about stealing $ from my mom, she turned around & called me narcissistic. Then went & told ppl I abuse our mom..🥴
2025-05-08 14:34:26
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ll0ry :
jokes on me, ill invalidate my feelings and not illicit any response so i dont have to be a bad guy 😁
2025-04-23 14:45:17
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Florentina :
💯 and I always need these reminders. Thank you 🙏🏽
2025-05-09 18:38:06
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hoodieheathen :
I literally just did this. And I went into panic mode after.
2025-05-09 18:01:47
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Jocelyn Rue :
Respected my nieces boundaries, I then was the bad guy for not crossing them. She’s 17 but she is old enough to know actions and words have consequences.
2025-05-10 20:21:58
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FireRider :
Amen
2025-05-22 19:25:35
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ileana :
I hate people pleasing
2025-05-12 23:10:26
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Aaron :
Two wrongs do not equal a right. This isn't math, this is humanity. Humanity is not a math equation. Treat people the way YOU want to be treated, not the way people treat you.
2025-05-12 17:45:10
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user0012983477 :
the problem is the anxiety i get after this or just after saying "no" for smth
2025-04-22 16:29:40
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partially.defective :
This found me at the perfect time
2025-05-11 13:31:37
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Zion🪽 :
I let too much slide 💔
2025-05-12 15:03:58
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Emily Lloyd :
Your cadence reminds me of Lilith from Cheers/Frasier. She’s a baddie and knows what she’s talking about. Thank you for this ❤️
2025-05-03 13:17:06
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Mackenzie Hicks :
I needed to hear this
2025-05-19 20:28:48
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emma777 :
I did in fact need to hear this right now
2025-05-19 15:54:19
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