@anxiouslyalej: Why “mean girls” get the best boyfriends (and you keep getting breadcrumbed) 👇 It’s not about being cold. It’s about having standards. When you stop shrinking, stop overcompensating, and stop auditioning for love—you become unforgettable. #feminineenergy #womensdatingadvice #blackcatenergy #datingforwomen #relationships #datingadvice #relationshipadvice #avoidantattachment #breakups

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LoveUrLife :
I’ve concluded that the only dynamic that truly works is if the man loves you more than you love him. It’s not a criticism, it just balances the best.
2025-04-24 03:45:40
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diamondsdaisies
Diamonds&Daisies :
It’s funny how men like us only when we like them less. It’s a such a juxtaposition.. Because often women have such deep capacity to love fully hehe. I’m working on pouring that love into myself and the world who needs me in general. Then he gets what I develop as a result of that. My certainty, my commitment to myself: I feel so free and yet full at the same time. Just got to keep focusing on my life and knowing he does not complete me but he is important if he shows his commitment to me through consistent actions
2025-07-17 13:59:27
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nykki_hustle
nykki_hustle :
Relationships are not an option for me
2025-07-21 19:11:28
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veronikerich
veronikerich :
How mean is mean enough?
2025-04-24 03:24:08
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sylphiria
Sylphiria :
Too late. I have no desire to be in a relationship anymore.
2025-04-24 04:17:18
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zhara_kk
zhara k :
they're not mean girls then they have boundaries
2025-04-24 18:43:42
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freelancemodels
TANTY TAMZ :
Correct ✅ ….. but me personally I don’t have any desire to be with these men absolutely not
2025-07-05 03:38:18
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janestoronto
janestoronto :
How do we do this?
2025-06-16 15:56:48
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tarasez0
❯❯❯❯❯ :
I have to agree. When you stop caring about what others think of you, you gain respect & your own power.
2025-04-24 04:42:51
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toxicorn29
toxicorn :
he was slightly scared of me🙂‍↕️🤚🏽
2025-04-24 03:00:25
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sassy4evers
Celina Santana :
People Pleasing Polly pocket 😂😂😂😂
2025-05-19 22:57:28
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_mmoonchildd_
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Don’t you guys get tired of this? How to keep a man why a man stays best strategies to get a man I wanna want my partner to love me less than I love them why doesn’t the other person deserve that?
2025-04-24 23:02:02
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user7617536209900
user7617536209900 :
I don’t like anyone anymore lol
2025-04-24 05:43:33
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mizladyxoxo
mizlady :
so what are examples to act around him without losing him
2025-06-20 06:33:39
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pugloversuperhero
pugloversuperhero :
What if being yourself is being a people pleaser?
2025-04-24 03:03:08
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arielaldamavaldez
Ariel :
“When you love and respect yourself more than your desire to be chosen” 🔥
2025-06-19 14:40:45
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gracevegasplays
Declara en Cristo :
so basically I have to be mean to him all the time.😅
2025-04-24 03:56:35
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1jrcheeseburger
✨ :
Out of all the women influencers that give advice to other women u are the one that makes the best sense. U take first place.
2025-04-24 03:32:28
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vannie1536
vannie :
Thanks
2025-07-05 18:32:21
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preciousfobi
Precious :
Everyone can relate….💕
2025-05-08 21:29:33
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whats.popinn
Popi :
As a naturally mean girl it’s not easy 😭😭 constantly fighting between ‘am I sabotaging something good here?’ And ‘noo if I try be nice I’ll be taken for a fool” 😭 it’s a horrible battle
2025-04-24 23:33:11
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teena._1
Teena :
This is so true
2025-07-07 07:28:55
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oedipalcatmom
SoulCat :
You just described me to a T - I’m the “mean” girl, married for 10 years. Here’s my secret: naturally, I sincerely hate most men, I’m very self-focused, and for whatever reason, that draws men in hard
2025-04-24 18:49:12
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user1233457785008
jen :
How to be comfortable being unliked??
2025-04-24 14:42:55
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katagal72
Kerri :
Yup my nana was a firm proponent of “treat em mean keep em keen” school and damn it worked had men falling over themselves for her all her life
2025-04-24 04:37:14
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