I’ve come to the conclusion that I will never understand how and why he hurt me the way he did bc I am not capable of doing the same to somebody. I stopped asking why a long time ago.
2025-04-29 19:42:29
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sean :
My grandma used to say “If you understand it, you might become it. So it’s better you don’t understand.” She was right, being able to not understand means I’m still someone who loves fully.
2025-05-01 20:23:07
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Natalie :
Needed this
2025-05-01 02:09:14
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kels :
When we intellectualize someone’s reasons for hurting us, we sympathize with them instead of feeling for ourselves
2025-04-29 03:25:17
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Paige Marino :
“You will never understand because you would never do it”
2025-05-01 03:43:52
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dxlxiivv :
i see this and i understand it but i can’t let go i have nightmares i think of it day/night as much as i try not to it’s torture. i don’t understand i dont i don’t how someone claimed to love you and be so cruel so careless of your pain and ur life. how they can make it seem like they have the best intentions then hurt you in the worst way
2025-04-29 23:43:08
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GloriasShanelle :
I don’t need a reason to get back with my ex even if he has changed. The wounds were a little too deep and I’d rather heal them and move on, no matter how long it takes bc little Shanelle didn’t
2025-05-01 22:29:34
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Stephany Hernandez :
you know, you helped me open my eyes with your last post. I was trying to understand why they did what they did. maybe they're going through shit. but im going through shit too & I would NEVER treat..
2025-05-01 01:27:18
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Timber Keys :
Thank you!! I needed to see this.
2025-05-01 14:41:37
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Katelynannk :
this just healed me
2025-04-30 01:46:58
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lavenderforest91 :
So true. His actions were a reflection of HIS internal state and that’s all I need to understand. His unhealed wounds were never mine to carry and letting it all go is the only thing that’ll free me.
2025-05-01 17:46:11
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kaykayrayrayy :
this, this is it. i needed this so much more than you know.
2025-04-29 22:53:42
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abby :
but how do you just quit thinking about it? it consumes me some days.
2025-04-30 03:23:30
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Rambo Rosales :
It helped me to instead get curios about why I was attracted to a relationship like that. It wasn’t my fault but it was my responsibility to heal the part of me that ignored the red flags.❤️
2025-05-01 17:37:14
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Random Eve :
I like to think that in the end, they experienced my love and that says more of who I am. Whatever positive seed I planted may it sprout and cause positive change in their lives.
2025-05-01 20:58:56
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Ger 🇬🇧 :
Totally agree! And staying stuck continues to give them power over your feelings and influence in you life!
2025-04-29 17:55:39
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Reece Black :
This man has been hitting the nail right on the head recently, too real
2025-04-29 11:59:23
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tt.torious :
I’ve seen this type of text numerous times… April 29 2025 is when it finally developed my frontal lobe
2025-04-29 23:14:35
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why would you do this? :
this is the realist thing i've ever seen
2025-04-30 17:50:32
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Grace Jasperson :
Genuinely needed that sm i appreciate it
2025-04-30 16:36:19
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blankv0id :
I came to the understanding that I will never understand their actions and choices. because I wouldn't throw my baggage on someone else and blame them for crying. I will never be that kind of person
2025-05-01 01:54:27
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kenzie :
Can I repost this
2025-05-01 13:54:30
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novarae :
Not understanding how someone who act that way, treat ones they love like that.... is the conclusion. Their behavior is not understandable. And that's on them. Its up to us to heal & live away
2025-04-30 17:39:54
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Emily ❯❯❯❯ :
This is the one thing I needed to hear today, this hit to the bone:/
2025-04-29 03:26:59
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Kiana :
I was trying to understand someone who couldn’t fathom going through what I did.
2025-04-30 01:53:14
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