I cant do it unless I know why. it won't make sense until I do.
2025-04-29 15:22:56
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Abnorbly🍉🇸🇩 :
yes. I spend a lot of time disassociating and being incredibly introspective and self reflective. but when I come out the other side of an episode, I understand myself (and others) deeper.
2025-04-29 15:57:21
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Esmeé :
this is why I failed maths
2025-05-07 15:33:08
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Rach 🧃 :
Like why do NT just do things without knowing why
2025-04-30 14:35:50
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scarlyd :
everything IS connected!
2025-04-29 18:34:40
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Sunshine (at Home Tonight) 🌈✨ :
Yes! They are so annoyed by us asking clarifying questions - it’s so hard to get them to just be honest?
2025-04-30 08:44:24
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Lee R :
You are so refreshingly easy to listen to. Alistics talking make me so tired all day.
2025-04-29 15:25:46
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Bad Luck Charm :
the way you described your shadow work seems so different than every allistic I've heard talk about it
2025-04-29 16:47:00
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Neph :
Latest part of my shadow work was my relationship with people 🙂 I covered every nook and cranny. Took me nearly a year. Every community. Every subgroup. Wild.
2025-04-29 15:51:21
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loek_who.s_talking :
this makes CBT have a lot more sense. CBT was made for neurotypicals so they think more so their feelings don't take over. but with me, it taught me how to OVERoverthink those pesky feelings AWAY 🙈😂
2025-04-30 10:01:40
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I*UnderstandingMoreNotToJudge :
Why is it that others that speak monotone keep my attention, but those that have WAY too much vocal pitch in just a sentence makes me tired emptionally?
2025-04-30 01:07:15
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shezza :
Yes tired of being felt to be ashamed for overthinking and over analysis etc, because “over”-verb is the bare minimum for processing…. That’s my baseline.
2025-04-29 22:05:41
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Noseyamazondriver :
My problem is “what am I trading my energy for?” Because it is of highest value. Then “how can I make it more efficient so I can keep my energy…”
2025-05-01 13:49:58
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Luke Grosch :
FACTS 😭
2025-05-07 07:24:35
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jayrannosaurus vexed :
Dose anyone else want that t shirt though
2025-04-29 23:22:45
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salty bob 🍁🍉 :
hard agree!!! I appreciate you sharing your perspective as always 🥰
2025-04-29 17:34:19
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Clumsygoosecat :
Curiosity is at the root of it for me. I just enjoy learning new things...now retaining information isn't my forte, but I love understanding how something works.
2025-04-30 17:11:47
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Danielle Duncan 🇫🇷 :
Straight facts ✨ Understanding came first, feeling the feelings despite having lots of feelings is a work in progress.
2025-04-29 21:52:08
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Jazzy Gem | Tarot & More🌀 :
NO YES!!! If it doesn’t makes sense I have to find out why. And if it has no resolution, then my whole day stops and I start worrying more. Definitely need to work on that
2025-05-01 17:38:22
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tblizzy :
yes yes yes yes yes
2025-04-30 12:45:19
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underTheSubway :
Oh 100% me.
2025-04-29 20:42:57
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NotDeadGhost :
This✨ I absolutely lock in when im given information. Growing up my parents shut down my asking questions with "because i said so". That made me shut up, which led me to being " too quiet".
2025-04-29 19:04:19
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milla :
great video n epic tardis btw :] i love doctor who as well
2025-05-07 12:02:48
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vvstardust80🍉 :
I can’t get myself to do something until I understand what it is and why it should happen and that helps me figure out how it should happen
2025-04-30 04:13:33
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SugarPumpkins1 :
THIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIS! Omg!! 😩
2025-04-29 15:38:53
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Max | Overall Oaf 🇨🇦💄 :
I'm so glad I've found your page. I resonate a lot with almost everything you say in your videos
2025-06-27 14:51:29
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WHOxOHW :
“Piece by piece.” 🔥🔥🔥
2025-05-19 14:04:03
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My :
this! i found that i need to read and think a lot in phases. and then I can live off of that which makes my brain more calm, focusing on fun research and not just survival
2025-05-08 03:17:53
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LadiesTunes :
Do you find asking "why" helps It just reminds me of my mistakes and I don't resolve much. Asking "how might I" helps me. But I'd love 2 resolve stuff
2025-05-07 22:19:04
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Cry harder. :
Me too. My brain doesn't stop until I find the answer. its like digging for loot.
2025-05-07 11:02:11
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chill yayaka 🍉 :
I relate so much to your path!
2025-05-07 10:09:36
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✨Miri ✨🇪🇺 :
Mentally resolving something is my happy place!!
2025-05-07 10:09:13
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kaja 🦭🇪🇺 :
understanding more and more how the body works made it so easy to eat healthy and exercise. no need for motivation or other fluff
2025-05-07 09:38:17
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Melbelle 🇨🇭 :
we don’t need more time to process than them. They don’t do it at all. I feel like they don’t care to know or understand but it is essential!!!!! to do so
2025-05-07 08:22:41
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Danny :
Off topic but I love all your bonnets
2025-05-06 00:23:47
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hakerann 🇨🇦🏳️🌈 :
Figuring this out about my autistic kid has made parenting SO much easier, but it’s so hard to convey to others. Tell her WHY we’re working on this seemingly useless skill in swim lessons and she’ll be ON IT. If you just tell her it’s fun (it’s not, in itself), she isn’t interested or “compliant”. I keep trying to tell people to tell her the ultimate goal first, start at the end and work backwards from there, but it’s counterintuitive to allistics.
2025-05-05 00:56:25
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TraineeAuntieSJ :
luuuuuvvvvv ur shirt!
2025-05-04 22:41:11
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Jay :
HOW DO I GET OVER THISSSSSS LITERALLY WAS AN ISSUE IN MY RELATIONSHIP HELPPPPPP
2025-05-03 00:25:18
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Shierke27 :
so I have questions just percolating in the back of my head (sucking up some ram but what can you do). and when I finally work it out it just pops up and changes the world all over again
2025-05-01 18:28:09
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Cail. :
Hard agree with this whole video. I tried the not over thinking thing for years and my life fell apart because nothing was fixed. I've been sending time 'overthinking' recently and feel much calmer
2025-05-01 14:06:32
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toyosibee🐝 :
KTKEKWKDJFNRNWKFKFKWOWKEBEJEJRGJFJ NO CAUSE 😭
2025-04-30 14:40:24
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ia3 🍉 :
Real
2025-04-29 21:38:57
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Mare :
❤️
2025-04-29 19:42:49
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