It’s even worst when they’re your first everything and your not the first at anything for them. I’ve been struggling with it for 3 yrs at this point😩
2025-05-07 11:40:52
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Oops my bad :
The people they had before you were just preparing them for you ain’t another you and they chose you
2025-05-01 20:10:15
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Autumn Folls :
I’m 24 and I randomly just stopped giving af one day and then also became unbelievably confident at the same time lol— it gets better ladies I promise 😫 my brain just developed more one day
2025-05-05 23:29:53
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🪩 evie ⸆⸉ :
so then i lowkey just self sabotage
2025-05-03 10:49:06
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౨ৎ ˖ ࣪⊹ • ℳ𝒶𝒹𝒾 •⊹₊ ⋆୨ৎ :
sometimes i wonder if he was happier with them that he is with me and if he ever misses them. but then i remember he CHOSE to be with me and chooses to love me everyday. if he still wanted them,
2025-05-06 20:30:45
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Ester౨ৎ :
im literally his first gf idk why im so stressed
2025-05-01 20:11:03
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mariah :
I literally need to grow up every problem is because I’m immature and can’t handle that I’m not the first girl he’s ever seen in the entire world
2025-05-06 09:58:53
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Noni :
how do u get rid of it bruh 😔
2025-05-01 16:05:55
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Shante :
Just tell yourself love isnt about exclusivity, its about depth
2025-05-06 13:05:05
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Sol :
I’m not her first anything she is all of mine and it just hurts for the most pathetic reasons
2025-07-01 19:25:55
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Jamie • ☆ :
My brain is so my opp sometimes
2025-05-06 00:17:10
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nat :
think about all the things they have done for you, the things you wouldn't tell anyone and remember that's why they love u sm, that will give you security
2025-05-05 19:02:36
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Big_peewee :
i think this is worse w girls because usually we leave men not the other way around so we fear that they probably miss their exes and are just getting what they can
2025-05-21 22:42:49
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mae :
he was MARRIED im sick
2025-05-08 15:10:21
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pepe :
we are each other's first everything 😁😁😁😁 so this doesn't happen
2025-05-01 21:03:58
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🖤 :
no bc how does he tell me he loves me when he has an ex of 5 years
2025-05-07 22:05:46
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Jia Novelino :
ah how do I deal with retroactive jealousy if my girl still has active connection with her ex who is now her best friend (wlw)
2025-05-09 02:17:59
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passionmoon :
i’m his first significant *girlfriend* but that girl he used to know will always haunt me 😔
2025-05-05 23:43:19
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gillian :
hey i’m so sorry but what is your lip combo
2025-05-05 19:57:02
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tiff :
me self sabotaging for literally no reason
2025-05-05 22:24:20
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angie :
My brain is my worst enemy
2025-05-05 18:41:58
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empathy7 :
a gentle reminder that your feelings are valid. you are human. its okay to feel things deeply. its okay to feel. just dont hurt yourself. you deserve to feel freely. you are enough 🫂
2025-07-10 14:42:21
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emi ☾ ゚⋆ :
me two years in
2025-05-05 17:42:50
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