@shanboody: Hear me out, providing isn’t always material. Sometimes it’s how someone holds the moment, how they show up, and how they approach challenges and uncertainty. What makes you feel safe in a relationship?

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sunnispeaksvegan
sunnispeaksvegan :
I can’t stand someone who ain’t got no figure it out
2025-05-04 06:39:44
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lyoness0811
Moné :
I get what she's saying, she believed in her father because he believed in himself and applied action to follow through. she wants to be with someone who does the same.
2025-05-03 21:24:34
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mjwrites063
MJ Writes :
she is SO aware of herself and others it’s almost intimidating but at the same time very much inspiring
2025-05-03 17:55:19
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autmnalsolitudes
atumnalsolitudes :
Her idea of a man is rooted in her father. There was never a fear of her safety. No uncertainty for their family. So, SHE took on that role in her relationships but she craves a man to do that.😢
2025-05-04 13:11:07
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ess_20221
ess_20221 :
Her father showed her that even if they didn’t have the money, he was going to find a way to make sure they had what they needed
2025-05-04 20:56:54
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24kgoldengirl
Jasmine :
It’s men having the cognitive ability to solve problems no matter how uncertain the situation feels or is at any point. Has nothing to do with $, intelligence and wit can go a long way
2025-05-05 18:16:10
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bpgiles
Brittney Giles :
Not that I’m complaining, but when you have an excellent father, it does make it harder to find a partner who meets a standard set by a great man. I’ve always been unlucky in love.
2025-05-04 15:52:58
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notatweeter16
NotaTweeter16 :
SO IMPORTANT: nothing's wrong w/ a season of insecurity or fear, but when u make it clear that u don't feel CERTAIN that things will ultimately be okay, that makes a woman feel UNSAFE & UNPROTECTED.
2025-05-04 13:52:14
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ryan_amari
Ryan Amari :
Her father provided safety and security no matter situation . It’s a providing mindset .. not a lot of men have. Her father didn’t have to say “ I got this “ he just did
2025-05-03 21:08:45
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yoob0
Yubi :
Yes. Definitely a turn off when you’re the one who’s more resourceful and has a can do and will do take care of it attitude than the man you’re with. It’s pretty much over at that point lol
2025-05-05 02:00:55
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frequencyoffree
Frequency of Free :
Its the mindset of money not being a driving force and knowing abundance has many forms. And confidence in the self to invite and allow solutions to flow through you.
2025-05-04 18:36:37
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signature_snack
TopNotch :
This goes to show you can love them without money and they will still be unable to fulfill your needs.
2025-05-04 05:59:45
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free2bmj
MJ :
I have got to find this full interview. All the clips have been impeccable
2025-05-04 12:38:08
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zippididdy
Zariii 🔮 :
I knew her voice sounded familiar. Then she said Cree Summer and I was like ohh!
2025-05-04 16:27:56
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kbbaabby
kbbaabby :
she perfectly articulated something i could never explain
2025-05-04 22:53:57
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loveservedwarm
PCOS Pregnancy & Weightloss :
I understand this so deeply, because it’s all that I crave now. That feeling of safety 🥺
2025-05-03 23:32:46
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southoftheborderqueen
Elizabeth Máximo :
Her father provided safety and security no matter their circumstances. He always made sure his kids were taken care of. Something that isn't common nowadays.
2025-05-05 16:17:52
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damesandbroads
MTF :
Loved this interview so much. Really gave words to my feelings.
2025-05-03 19:15:34
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havootu
Havootu Crystal :
that's the big difference growing up in privileged and what I mean by that is with parents who have the privilege of a free mind vs growing up the opposite of that which most black experience.
2025-05-04 00:35:59
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elizabeth.thompso45
Elizabeth Thompson :
Being chocked??? What did I miss
2025-05-04 15:00:23
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kumbaya97
Comment creator :
It’s being able to lead with certainty even in uncertain times. We see this even in management at work. The ability to reassure others
2025-05-04 04:20:58
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lemondeez
lemondeez96 :
I really resonate with this because I had the same type of father. I never once doubted that he'd figure things out and that we'd be ok.
2025-05-03 18:39:57
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tolasopa
tolasopa :
It was the faith her father had. She needs to see that in her partner. I love the sharing of this perspective
2025-05-04 18:56:34
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lawdhammersey
Lawd Hammersey :
Having money and knowing how to get some money are 2 completely different skill sets
2025-05-07 22:13:54
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