@opusreality: You can’t rewrite your parents’ story. You can’t force them to see what they’re not ready to see or change patterns they’ve clung to for years. One of the hardest truths to accept: some people—especially those we love—may never choose to grow. Even in pain, the known feels safer than the unknown. And trying to “save” them often means losing ourselves. The real healing begins when we stop parenting our parents and start parenting ourselves. That means building healthy homes, relationships, and futures—not out of resentment, but out of love. That’s how the cycle ends—with us. Words inspired by: @the.holistic.psychologist ❝ Opus Reality 🎥 Content includes third-party material used for commentary/parody purposes. All rights belong to their respective owners.

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voqhx
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timing is insane.
2025-05-04 20:07:47
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sofia_unicorn131
𝐒𝔬𝔣𝔦𝔞☆♫ :
please name of the melody on the background 🙏🏻
2025-07-28 17:45:40
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briankend33
briankend33 :
Timing is insane but trust me I didn’t realize how much I was holding myself back until I read the Encrypted Abundance by David West
2025-05-26 10:55:05
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nini_purple
nini_purple :
It ends with me. I’m not bringing new generations….
2025-06-20 07:09:08
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haybugg99
haybugg99 :
Someone tag my dad
2025-05-15 01:00:05
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palmaasiaa
palmaasiaa :
i will never leave my mom alone, she needs me and idc if that means i have to sacrifice myself
2025-07-26 01:25:27
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evil_barajas
Evil_barajas :
Republicans parents
2025-07-03 15:28:23
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inish24n25
Inish :
But the Outer world is cruel. In some cases it is ok to stay with them instead of any other out there.
2025-07-09 09:00:11
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jajah28229_us
jajah28229_US :
A friend told me this today. Your parents are separate humans. Your responsibility is to live the life they gave you.
2025-05-04 22:41:20
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mch.rbnl
Mich 💋 :
Then the Eldest daughter carry the burden 💔
2025-06-04 03:13:00
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contuser999
mariuserx :
we can pray to our Lord God for them !
2025-05-07 21:52:09
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euphelma106
USER :
Worst part of all, we carry that burden.
2025-05-05 13:51:09
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mystic9185
mystic9185 :
I needed this
2025-07-15 23:40:12
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wutever__forever
wutever__forever :
Had to learn this in therapy
2025-07-03 02:45:45
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kalebx209
kalebx209 :
I love my mom
2025-07-07 03:18:01
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venzu200
venzu200 :
i wish to never be like my mother. the pain she caused me echos louder than the love she failed to give.
2025-05-18 18:07:45
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vannimaceria69
mymothertoldmewheniw :
People who don’t experience this don’t know how soulkilling is this to hear
2025-05-09 23:53:27
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slowdemonzombie
ANGELZ REVENGE :
My child will have the life i never had 💯🙏
2025-05-05 05:17:30
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jajdbdkancbjx
jajdbdkancbjx :
So hard when you’re trying to better yourself in ways your parents didn’t / couldn’t, and being around them when you’re trying to progress but they’re stagnant and it makes it harder to get better because of triggers/ trauma that being around them can cause
2025-05-17 23:53:06
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writtenbynoelia
noelia 🪶 :
this is exactly what my therapist told me and it was really difficult to accept
2025-05-05 19:12:01
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name.s_eve
Eve :
i tried to help my mom from her miserable life, she decided she didn't want to, but I can't be with her, i want people close to me who like to change and make themselves better everyday, that's why i just live with her, focusing on my own life
2025-06-04 11:07:50
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vaginalicious.s
vaginalicious.s :
But it hurts so damn much i love my mom
2025-07-07 11:03:36
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gordwin
G :
I have my dad, my mom past in 2021. My dad doesnt change his habits. I AM NOT SAVING HIM, HE DOESNT WANT TO BE SAVED BECAUSE HE DOESNT SHOW ANY SIGN OF CHANGE OR ATTEMPTING TO
2025-06-23 10:59:45
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jounggustav
Joung Gustav :
a close family member of mine passed away recently, which maybe could have been prevented. I agree you shouldn‘t ruin your own life to save someone, but it can be worth at least trying to help ❤️🕊️
2025-05-05 22:09:19
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chizukari
CHIMKINZILLA :
my mother cannot slow down, when i was young i always felt like i am rushed- not let to explore by myself, she won't let me try to do things on my own- micromanaging everything. Now i have my own daughter- i let her play and exploring, learning how to do things while i still keep an eye to protect her. Even now i still can't see eye to eye about parenting my daughter with her.
2025-05-08 14:41:43
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