@therapyjeff: What’s the #1 thing that kills desire in long-term relationships? #MentalHealth #therapy #relationshiptips #dating #datingadvice

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katjadalsgaardpet
Katja Petersen :
I was 100% sure you were about to say camping
2025-05-08 14:01:08
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pairedapp
Paired App for Couples :
It’s him leaving his wet towel on the bed
2025-05-08 14:34:53
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kristan077
Kristan 🇨🇦 :
This is what killed my last relationship. We lived and worked together, did all of our activities together and when I wanted to do my own thing he had to control what that was.
2025-05-08 17:32:57
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ddnemo
DDnemo :
If you live together- and have a somewhat predictable schedule, how do you keep the mystery?
2025-05-08 20:35:37
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kristinastacey121627
Kris Stacey :
What do you do when your partner won’t do that? With his BPD, he cannot handle me doing anything without him.
2025-05-08 21:08:14
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nomz_za
The Nono :
Would this be same for platonic relationships?
2025-05-08 19:21:30
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strategyman
Peter Nagy :
Building furniture together
2025-05-11 11:49:07
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ferran3d
Ferran :
Omg yes! This! I've experienced it myself a couple of times now. There comes a time that you no longer see your partner as an individual external to you, someone with their own world and mind, that you are attracted to and want to be a part of. And this is exactly what happens in the beginning of the courtship. If they become a limb of yours, then there is no attraction or wanting to discover the other person. And it kills everything
2025-07-02 15:14:22
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bohohippiehistorian
BohoHippieHistorian :
We do solo trips every year!
2025-06-14 21:17:08
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deathoftheauthor
deathoftheauthor :
It’s capitalism tbh
2025-05-09 09:55:20
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misstheresamarie
misstheresamarie :
Encourage your partner to keep their friendships and continue their hobbies. I send my husband and his buddies golf tournament fliers for example. We all need our villages.
2025-05-09 13:18:02
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gmginger3
shaewood🇨🇦 :
It building IKEA furniture together 😂😂😂😂
2025-05-08 21:18:40
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nikki.opal
Nikki Schuler :
But it always felt like he was jealous whenever I’d talk to other people. I play video games and if I ever was talking to guys during a match he’d say I was flirting. I moved in with him away from my family so digital was my only connection to friends and family. Then when he and I would do stuff together which I always wanted to do, it was like he wasn’t there. It felt so alone to feel alone with him.
2025-06-12 17:26:45
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linds_xoxo
linds_xoxo :
Needed to hear this! I’m a year into a new relationship after a 12-year toxic marriage…it’s going MUCH better & part of it is how awesome our separate hobbies are and we have things we do together. ❤️
2025-06-10 12:51:40
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ruririror
Ruririror :
Me as an avoidant avoiding so they can get spark back and miss me although they never said they dont miss me😭
2025-06-27 11:09:29
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autumndawning
Autumn :
Hey Jeff! Thank you for your content; how long have you been married now?
2025-05-09 03:16:07
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molly.the.personn
Molly :
so like camping in separate tents?
2025-06-12 18:41:06
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swaggoalie1
Katelin Talbert :
Probably one advantage of long distance
2025-05-08 17:50:08
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hihoop
Sunniva :
But that means I have to get a lifee😫
2025-05-08 15:53:26
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girl.gorn.wild
girl.gorn.wild :
My partner and I are 2.5 years in, live separately and only spend about half our time together. This is the longest I’ve been able to maintain “desire” in a relationship. So far so good!
2025-05-08 13:35:17
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xabizo_
Xabizo :
It’s Contempt.
2025-06-30 20:30:25
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crammyram
crambo :
COVID lockdown really accelerated this issue
2025-05-08 14:28:32
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gail_deni
Gail Denish :
Familiarity breeds contempt
2025-05-08 18:42:16
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this.doctor.is.book_d
this.doctor.is.book_d :
This is fascinating. I really never thought of this
2025-05-20 02:55:23
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cat.kachura
cat:) :
This is a really kind way to call out codependence.
2025-05-08 13:37:02
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