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Kenan Blair :
Somtimes I get scared that I’m love bombing, but in reality I’m just extremely excited 😭 I LIKE GIVING FLOWERS ITS REALLY FUN.
2025-05-09 11:32:07
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annaastroem :
Thanks Geneva! Idealisation is also a part (part!!) of secure, healthy falling in love so don’t knock yourself and pathologise yourself too hard for idealising a little bit 🤷♀️❤️
2025-05-09 09:45:48
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Kaykay :
thank u for posting this girl ❤️💯 we all got a story to share
2025-05-20 04:30:28
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Elizabeth :
It can be difficult to know which one you’re dealing with, but learning how to ID “too much too soon” is essential to avoiding a bad situation. Both idealization & love bombing are going to end badly.
2025-05-09 11:51:18
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lessismore :
Watched a guy end it with one online girl, lock it down with another immediately & start making plans with her for months out and introducing her to family. Lost respect 4 him. And he kept his roster
2025-05-09 11:53:42
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TheSt@rvingAutist :
This is such an important distinction and it's rarely mentioned, thank you for making this
2025-05-09 05:12:48
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Charlie :
And love bombing can just be an enthusiastic person who wants to do nice things. It’s not black and white.
2025-05-09 14:30:27
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ShizzNit :
safe to go online again and BOOM, met an avoidant! now I am learning all about them. I will say the pulling away felt worse than the discard. because I was pretty disgusted by the narc by the time he
2025-05-09 11:01:56
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✨ 𝓐licia :
It is to remain single
2025-05-14 11:25:30
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Julie :
Absolutely agree!! DA’s, FA’s, and AP’s all can love bomb too, but it’s usually not on purpose. It’s usually more subconscious. It comes from idealizing just like you mentioned, not manipulation. They’re caught up in fantasy or trying to secure connection fast, not trying to control someone. Narcissists love bomb with intent, but with insecure attachers it’s more about unmet needs and fear, not a game.
2025-05-12 14:29:38
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Kayz :
My DAX started liking the same cars I liked. Wanted to do all the things I wanted to do and act like she loved it. She told me I was perfect and talked marriage. Then boom. Gone. And it was my fault.
2025-05-09 11:09:31
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MMAT :
This is a very informative finite distinction that helps explain when you've been wondering if you were with an Avoidant that did & wanted to love you or an abusive Narcissist. FYI: Pls Stop Speed-up!
2025-05-09 06:08:41
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Anthony :
I was with a woman who had triggered rage fits where she would scream, insult, degrade, and devalue me. I had compassion for her and assumed ptsd. In the end it was narcissism and I got discarded.
2025-05-10 12:35:19
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Red Beard 🫡 :
Naw we really enjoyed our time together. It was mutual. And the more time we go without talking I can see it more and more
2025-05-09 13:37:07
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richarddlionhearted :
How do you tell the difference when people either hide that they are avoidants or are yet to be diagnosed?
2025-05-10 21:41:44
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D.t...... :
avoidants are enthusiastics and respect the boundaries and my be show they vulnereable,how can i diff. bet.them & genuine interest one. my ex was an avoidant
2025-05-24 21:58:33
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boston_brewins :
Such important nuance thank you!
2025-05-10 02:05:50
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ShizzNit :
this is great truth! I never experienced an NPD relationship until '22/'23. Now understand all of that. experienced the Love bombing, triangulation, hoovering etc. Healed to the point I felt I was
2025-05-09 11:00:26
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ShizzNit :
discarded, but this avoidant, omg I love him, he's adorable. I want to love him well. but my heart can hardly take this push/pull😔
2025-05-09 11:02:42
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lucaslmgv :
there were no false promises, no rush. it's impossible to tell her avoidant idealization from genuine interest. only after the discard I knew :(
2025-05-30 00:09:40
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thebest@ :
👍💯
2025-05-14 20:01:24
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phantomcamel 🇩🇪🇦🇺 :
That’s is actually a great perspective 👌 Maybe we should use that term more for narcissistic personality disorder people.
2025-05-21 10:41:35
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the Animal :
yes, this is what I saw, and she couldn't make past 6min before she had to run
2025-05-10 19:38:16
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