@drjulie: 💥This hits hard 👉How do you feel when someone in your life says one thing but does another? Sometimes it can cause us to doubt ourselves because we want so much to believe in the words they say. But when there is a disconnect between words and actions I tend to believe that the behaviour carries more weight. Despite this I do believe that we should always assume positive intent and not rush to judge someone’s actions as malicious until we know more. As soon as we interpret a situation in that way, we are already disconnected and less likely to be able to approach them in a way that will help us fully understand intent. I’d love to hear what you guys think on this one, from your own experience. 👉 For more on this check out my new book ‘Open When...’ It was an instant No.1 Sunday Times and New York Times bestseller. Available for -48% discount see link in bio. Also check out my million copy bestselling 1st book ‘Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before?’ Up to 60% off right now. Both are available across the world in over 40 languages. If you don’t want to read it and would like me to read it to you, it’s free when you sign up to Audible. Both links in my bio. If you brought a copy of either of my books thank you for the support 🙏
Their words are what they want you to believe but the behavior is who they are 💯
2025-05-10 18:24:42
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Poh :
So, not words, not actions. But, behaviour.
2025-05-10 15:40:45
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Nnyen Adomi :
Actions indeed speak louder than words
2025-08-20 09:36:31
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mJ :
any Kenyan around?iykyk😅
2025-05-11 08:30:14
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user5692441019979 :
Actions speak louder than words
2025-05-10 17:22:52
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sarziiB :
Try explaining that to a narcissist
2025-05-10 19:40:31
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Princess :
and behaviour is thier actions !
2025-05-11 19:04:42
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Roswell :
Needed this, been dealing with it recently with a 'friend".
2025-05-14 10:34:47
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DreMesLaYla :
Not everyone can handlie the... That's why I hid it on m'y page
2025-08-21 16:27:47
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Paul Jock Clark :
This is fantastic advice for new me.
2025-05-10 16:20:01
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lindy☆ :
of course the behaviour, the action is the reality.
2025-05-10 19:38:32
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Jastonic Hyde :
Behavior rather ? I thought the actions speak louder than words 😊
2025-05-12 16:41:51
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Sei :
No one can fake behavior. Actions can be calculated as much as words can be thought.
2025-05-10 16:07:42
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Agent Cullen :
what do you mean believe In the behavior
2025-05-11 09:27:27
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soniso🥰 :
Ko moto mabatidzirei
2025-05-12 13:20:58
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Lars Brandl :
Never trust anyone’s words.
2025-05-11 01:35:55
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Amna_Gany :
why do they do that though? why rather not say anything at all
2025-05-11 04:43:16
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Rachel Mareraki306 :
My behaviour and action do not align in myself so how does this apply to me? Because I can’t show up for people that I really love because of internal battles and the way my brain is wired. I want to do things I can’t do and I do what I shouldn’t.
2025-06-04 20:30:55
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han21071 :
Here here
2025-05-11 01:44:21
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Julz :
Oh gosh this means he doesn't Love me and not willing to improve 🤔
2025-05-12 19:51:48
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mal mal :
100%. took me years to understand this. learned more about disorders. figured out they just never cared. never will change.
2025-05-10 20:53:46
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Cleo_666 :
indeed.
my friend ended our friendship, and after two months we haven't talked a word because she did anything to avoid me (ignoring me, no eye contact, getting out of calls as fast as she can whan it ends, walks faster whan we cross each other) - I managed to go to her and talk with her, and she said one thing that I knew it was a lie, she said "it was the easiest choise I've ever made,.people come, people go, this is how it works" now its fair, but her actions didn't showed her words, if she doesn't care as mush as she said, why she acts like that? mm? 🤨
2025-06-06 21:48:46
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Janice Tiffin (Jan Jan) 💎 :
Totally agree
2025-05-10 23:21:05
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Anthropologue du web 🇨🇦 :
I divorce for that reason; the words were always promisses, but the actions never followed. Best decision ever!
2025-05-10 16:18:35
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