@drjulie: 💥This hits hard 👉How do you feel when someone in your life says one thing but does another? Sometimes it can cause us to doubt ourselves because we want so much to believe in the words they say. But when there is a disconnect between words and actions I tend to believe that the behaviour carries more weight. Despite this I do believe that we should always assume positive intent and not rush to judge someone’s actions as malicious until we know more. As soon as we interpret a situation in that way, we are already disconnected and less likely to be able to approach them in a way that will help us fully understand intent. I’d love to hear what you guys think on this one, from your own experience. 👉 For more on this check out my new book ‘Open When...’ It was an instant No.1 Sunday Times and New York Times bestseller. Available for -48% discount see link in bio. Also check out my million copy bestselling 1st book ‘Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before?’ Up to 60% off right now. Both are available across the world in over 40 languages. If you don’t want to read it and would like me to read it to you, it’s free when you sign up to Audible. Both links in my bio. If you brought a copy of either of my books thank you for the support 🙏

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AlexandraOrtiz :
I BEG you, read Money Behind Red Door by Cole Harrison. This book will change your life.
2025-05-12 20:32:02
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engracedkay
EnKay🌹⭐️💫 :
Their words are what they want you to believe but the behavior is who they are 💯
2025-05-10 18:24:42
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Poh :
So, not words, not actions. But, behaviour.
2025-05-10 15:40:45
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sarziib
sarziiB :
Try explaining that to a narcissist
2025-05-10 19:40:31
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molete065
user5692441019979 :
Actions speak louder than words
2025-05-10 17:22:52
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dodjegaming
Lusia🍇 :
This is the content I signed up for!
2025-05-10 15:42:20
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soniso🥰 :
Ko moto mabatidzirei
2025-05-12 13:20:58
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kimse7027
kimse :
Ruto. najua mko uku
2025-07-20 12:16:59
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roswell7070
Roswell :
Needed this, been dealing with it recently with a 'friend".
2025-05-14 10:34:47
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Anthropologue du web 🇨🇦 :
I divorce for that reason; the words were always promisses, but the actions never followed. Best decision ever!
2025-05-10 16:18:35
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tandyboo
Tandyboo :
I don't understand. this is my situation... words and actions don't align..so what should his behavior entails for me to believe..isn't behavior like actions...please someone help me understand
2025-05-12 20:26:26
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meroxala
Princess :
and behaviour is thier actions !
2025-05-11 19:04:42
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seihleko
Sei :
No one can fake behavior. Actions can be calculated as much as words can be thought.
2025-05-10 16:07:42
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oliver_sly
Sly :
what do you mean believe In the behavior
2025-05-11 09:27:27
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polishjess
Jessica 🦋 :
Learnt the hard way really wanted to believe what he was saying to me led me on 5 years 🥺
2025-05-11 03:48:30
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mJ :
any Kenyan around?iykyk😅
2025-05-11 08:30:14
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pauljockclark
Paul Jock Clark :
This is fantastic advice for new me.
2025-05-10 16:20:01
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doc_neuroscience
DocNeuroscience🇦🇺🇫🇷🏳️‍🌈 :
Steven D Levitt: "Don’t listen to what people say; watch what they do".
2025-05-10 15:43:39
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That_niggerJACE🇿🇲/🇬🇧 :
How do I get to know which behavior to believe ??
2025-05-11 21:52:25
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Janice Tiffin (Jan Jan) :
Totally agree
2025-05-10 23:21:05
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Lars Brandl :
Never trust anyone’s words.
2025-05-11 01:35:55
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cleo_raz
Cleo_666 :
indeed. my friend ended our friendship, and after two months we haven't talked a word because she did anything to avoid me (ignoring me, no eye contact, getting out of calls as fast as she can whan it ends, walks faster whan we cross each other) - I managed to go to her and talk with her, and she said one thing that I knew it was a lie, she said "it was the easiest choise I've ever made,.people come, people go, this is how it works" now its fair, but her actions didn't showed her words, if she doesn't care as mush as she said, why she acts like that? mm? 🤨
2025-06-06 21:48:46
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fify4life
Julz & Fify :
Oh gosh this means he doesn't Love me and not willing to improve 🤔
2025-05-12 19:51:48
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Big Dan😎😍😘 :
If you say Behavior, I will like to know your definition of Behavior ma ?
2025-07-04 16:52:55
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