@parisanne0: The # of times that I have taken the “we should hang out sometime” formality as an invite to hit them up & then gotten ignored IS actually embarrassing 😩 #actuallyautistic #asd #fyp
I had this happen and asked the person "why did you invite me out if you didn't mean it?" they said "I was just being nice", newsflash...LYING TO PEOPLE ISN'T NICE. weirdos.
2025-05-11 13:24:23
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Asantè :
The worst is finding out you were actively being bullied for months but you were completely unaware.
2025-05-11 15:55:19
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Paul9924 🇨🇦 :
Yeah it’s a downer.
2025-05-12 16:27:40
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Alexander Thompson :
People are so weird. SAY WHAT TF YOU MEAN
2025-05-11 02:19:48
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Leviathan :
WHY DONT PEOPLE JUST SAY WHAT THEY MEAN OML 😭
2025-05-11 06:03:06
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Breaux :
My fave is when they mean the opposite by saying “a bunch of us are going to (place) after work.” Apparently that’s an invite…but now I look like I’m not interested because I didn’t go…
2025-05-11 12:53:50
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Kristen :
Me pulling out my calendar putting them on the spot
2025-05-11 01:03:03
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CarChanneledTarot💯ONLY PAGE! :
And they make you feel weird for thinking they wanted to hangout 😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁
2025-05-11 13:31:39
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carlyn :
no it’s SO strange and off putting because they could sooo easily just say “it was great to see you, bye!” without suggesting we should hang out again like?? WHY
2025-05-12 03:02:50
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mckenziejeanne :
One of my friends from kindergarten finally ghosted me after 20 years because I kept
2025-05-11 14:28:54
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YM :
do you ever just ask them point blank “do you mean that?” sometimes it shakes people out of auto pilot convos and be sincere or at the very least it helps just drop the pretense. I understand it’s not socially acceptable but I’m also very tired of reading between lines.
2025-05-12 16:51:37
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AutoDrivingHypersonicDebutante :
I feel like they actually mean “I like the concept of hanging out but I don’t like you enough to follow through” 💀
2025-05-11 23:03:03
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Moon🌙 :
I can't have conversations because no one EVER says what they mean.
2025-05-11 01:07:22
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cat :
I'm autistic and I say this and mean it. I have rejection sensitivity, so if they don't want to hang out, I feel like this is a subtle way for them to decline and my feelings to be preserved lol
2025-05-11 01:25:06
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Bryan Allison :
Stuff I have to explain to the normies in my work group. There is a difference between “you can come if you want” and I would like you to come with us 🤦🏻♂️
2025-05-11 05:29:12
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icelanderonetwo :
Words not matching what they mean = lack of integrity, it’s that simple
2025-05-11 02:38:19
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yourwelshauntiechloe :
I remember, a guy saying “let’s do a rain check”. I literally, googled the weather and told him there’s no rain. (Why am I like this)
2025-05-11 21:49:02
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Brendan Fn James :
So weird that we as a society just completely normalized gaslighting in language…
2025-05-11 13:55:47
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Infa 🏳️⚧️🦈 :
do they not know there's other things they can say??? like not acknowledging hanging out again is even possible
2025-05-11 02:03:29
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Maddie.b :
I get so confused, I don’t understand this at all so I just keep everyone away lol
2025-05-10 23:39:41
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kaity_bear22 :
What does it mean?
2025-05-12 15:09:53
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apauling :
I'm not autistic but damn I thought I was making Hella friends 💔
2025-05-11 19:06:06
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mymiserablesister :
Honestly idk when this became a thing but I hate the fakeness of it. Like millenial and above actually mean it/follow up but everyone below doesnt
2025-05-11 13:02:15
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☆ ☆ ☆ :
You’re hurting my FEELINGS
2025-05-10 23:43:09
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Paige :
I learned this the hard way lmao only tried hanging out 8+ times the course of a year + that they didn’t really want to hangout. They only wanted to send me pictures that they prob texted 20 others
2025-05-11 01:49:19
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