@relationshipswithaly: Being more intentional doesn’t have to be this huge thing. It can be really simple: more eye contact, following up on something they shared a few days ago…just little ways of showing you still care about them as a person and want to be thoughtful. How does it go when you try and bring up things like this with your partner? Comment or DM “MASTERCLASS” to join my free couples communication masterclass this week! You’ll learn how to defeat defensiveness in your relationship in three simple steps. Disclaimer: IG is not therapy. This content is for educational and entertainment purposes only. THIS WILL NOT APPLY TO EVERYONE.

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day_of_fate
Day of Fate :
I'm a non talker, general questions about nothing are not engaging, as SPECIFIC questions. Don't ask how my day was, ask if there's something about my day that I'm still thinking about ECT
2025-05-12 00:43:48
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galen011
David Halle :
Or maybe the talkative partner could actually try to make the quiet one feel comfortable. If one partner needs to constantly leave their comfort zone for the other there is a problem.
2025-05-11 09:29:45
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thiaraven
Tonya Thompson :
I’m tired of always initiating conversation, and him yelling at me for not talking all the time. Mama works and is tired and doesn’t want to always talk or be the one to start a conversation
2025-05-12 04:16:46
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tenshi.twix
Tenshi.Twix :
omg it kills me when I ask my parent how was his day and he tells me fine and then later on will talk to someone else about his day... like why couldn't you talk to me about it?...
2025-05-19 07:15:32
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pnw_ashley_33
pnw_ashley_33 :
Maybe the talkative person should have found a talkative person to be with. Forcing someone to be who they are not is not how we do relationships.
2025-05-11 22:39:54
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zakarii333
Zakarii :
Well bc I dont go out and all I do is work and come home. She doesn’t want to hear about my work day. That’s the only thing I can talk about bc she not interested in anything else I say. If I could get free time instead of working and cleaning the house and bc of her going to sleep early. What do I talk about
2025-05-14 17:39:47
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ohboy_here_we_go
Ohboy_here_we_go :
As a over talker dating a quiet one of the first thing that he said that ever stuck with me was “it’s not awkward silence it’s quite content”
2025-05-13 02:13:01
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brookecheer123
Brooke :
My bf gets mad when I ask him how his day was all the time
2025-05-19 01:11:49
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bug_taz
Taz :
literally dumped my ex cuz he wouldn’t talk to me
2025-05-11 19:06:34
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bashfulbibandit
Bashful Bi Bandit :
avoid small talk then, ask them something they're interested in 🤷 a lot of people are simply not interested in talking about 'nothing'
2025-05-28 19:28:43
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blankman017
Blankman01 :
ask her to be more intimate and be told "it's your problem not mine" your always wrong if you don't comply with their feelings
2025-05-11 15:56:35
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kiwi_delights
Kiwi :
and suddenly everything just clicked. This just made me realize the man I’ve been dating doesn’t ask me questions about myself..
2025-06-28 00:29:54
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hall_is_betterx
Hall_is_better :
They stop talking about deeper things when its clear the other person doesn't care. Active listening is needed also.
2025-05-22 15:54:12
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amylynn7979
amylynn :
As a nontalker, maybe you are their safe place where they can relax and not worry about what they have to say. They are comfortable just being in your presence.
2025-05-11 09:59:38
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solo_0207
SOLO_207 :
I need this on her FYP rn instead of mine ASAP!!!
2025-06-29 00:15:57
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takosama361
takosama361 :
Match the energy and suddenly we're the ones at fault....again.
2025-07-03 21:47:59
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dreampie75
teddybyebye :
y’all this video is just a minor example of a bigger problem— being in a relationship where ur ALWAYS the one showing interest in the others life and asking questions and the other doesn’t reciprocate
2025-05-11 17:06:08
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chilliwaves101
chilliwaves101 :
On your terms, in the way you want it and the time you want it. If a man or a dominant partner did this to you when you don’t want it then it’s assault
2025-05-13 16:54:31
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krissdontpee
Trashhead :
I'm usually more quiet because what I say feels like it dosent really matter in the convo anyway, especially when people ask, you really and ask back and they just starts talking without any "that sounds nice" or acknowledge what u said
2025-05-13 15:18:25
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resonantfreak
ResonantFreak :
Maybe they've shown themselves not to be a safe person to talk to or especially someone to show emotion to or be vulnerable around. Fine and ok are all that's going to be said to them.
2025-05-11 18:55:47
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saccharine_tongue
♡WitchValkyri♡ :
She isn't saying as a couple you two need to talk a lot but if all you want to do is sit in silence with your partner and NEVER speak, answer or anything then no, you're not a non-talker, you're just clearly not into your partner. If they have to fight to get a response do you even like them?
2025-06-09 11:12:50
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chloegray3
Chloe Gray :
I feel like I'll get yelled at for complaining
2025-05-19 23:41:59
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patcavalier
Patrick :
Maybe ask about something they're interested in talking about. Ask a deeper question to have the deeper discussion you claim to want to have.
2025-05-11 23:53:35
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titan_exo
Kyle :
Every time I actually told her about my day I'd get.. "oh... Anyway this is what happened with me today..." 🙄
2025-05-12 11:57:40
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