I got more acknowledgement for losing weight than I did for beating cancer
2025-05-12 23:36:57
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Meggy G :
I've never seen someone with my body type do yoga. Thank you for sharing 💖
2025-05-11 22:00:09
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domz987654321 :
The surveillance from people you love is so painful. Thanks for putting words to this feeling
2025-05-11 19:54:33
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labetts :
Yes, I’m afraid you’re right. I once lost a lot of weight by accident and got far more compliments than when I completed my PhD.
2025-05-12 19:21:23
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Melliemeter :
I would rule the world if I didn't waste so much time and energy thinking about my weight
2025-05-11 21:20:21
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Chris Lesley :
Surveillance- that word hit hard. Sometimes you know things are going on, but you can’t articulate it. Surveillance articulates it perfectly
2025-05-11 21:30:07
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Mango :
I’ve lost. A lot of weight. Peoples reactions have made me feel like they never liked me before but I’m still her. I was always me and will be but all I seem to be is a body before a person.
2025-05-12 11:20:04
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dydgg1mx102b :
my family members don't tell me to my face all this but when they talk about another fat person they're so mean I wonder what they say about me when I am not here
2025-05-12 08:50:53
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zara :
M’y mum taking pictures of me in secret was confirmation of all my surveillance fears. I go through her phone when she’s asleep and delete them.
2025-05-12 06:00:50
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mennamachine :
My mom joined the Zoom meeting for my PhD dissertation defense and right after congtatulating me for passing she said “I thought you would have lost weight for this”. 🫠🫠🫠
2025-05-13 06:34:40
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Reimu :
I'm quite average in weight, but I was slightly overweight before and already I'm so tired of people commenting on my lost weight. I'm losing weight cause I'm ill, and people keep praising it
2025-05-12 11:36:21
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Laura 🌈🇳🇱 :
The strength and fluidity of your movements. I'm obsessed 🥰
2025-05-11 20:27:07
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nothere4youBYEEEE💅 :
I feel like peoples obsession with other people bodies needs to be in the DSM as a defined disorder. It’s so weird and yet so socially acceptable to participate in. Skin suits are all amazing✌️
2025-05-13 14:16:10
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light amongst the dark ♿🏳️🌈 :
could you possibly make this a sound? it's wonderful ❤️
2025-05-11 22:21:14
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Jen :
well said. today I sat at a pool in a tankini. and some grumpy octogenarian at the next bed watched me and tutted all day. all day.people need to mind their business, and not mind mine!
2025-05-11 19:46:10
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Jennifer Davis6952 :
'to be congratulated for weightloss above all your other achievements' - this one hits super hard. I can't bear this, as an overweight person.
2025-05-12 13:09:40
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Adaeze :
I gained weight as a side effect of problems with my mental health. And while I may not always love myself, I'm happy I'm alive and fat rather than skinny and dead
2025-05-12 14:05:51
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CrochetGrannySquare :
my parents said they'd pay for a weight loss jab for me. Totally out of the blue. I hadnt mentioned anything to them about wanting to lose weight 😭
2025-05-26 21:33:08
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Kari :
can you please make this a sound?? so well said! ♥️
2025-05-11 18:37:54
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Sahar 🇨🇦 :
Make this a sound asap 👏
2025-05-12 21:37:04
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Romana :
I've lost half my body weight due to health reasons. there was never a point where they would just leave it alone. they complimented me until a certain point, they started commenting I should eat more. there was no neural. all of my weight gain and weight loss was related to health and it has a huge influence on my mental health. I just want to exist in my body without judgement.
2025-05-12 12:22:43
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Alorahwilds :
I once asked a group what they would say if I lost 100 lbs, and they all said they'd congratulate me. then I said what if it was because I had cancer and was dying. they all went silent.
2025-05-12 21:54:17
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Laura :
Girl you are STRONG 😍🙌🏻
2025-05-11 22:14:08
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Jessie :
I didn’t gain weight in my pregnancy due to extreme nausea and the compliments I got while feeling like I was dying were startling.
2025-05-14 00:18:31
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