Therapy is only worthwhile if they believe they have a problem
2025-05-12 06:59:33
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Marie :
i dont understand how they dont even think of this?!?!?!?
2025-05-11 23:47:38
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Bayle Margolis :
I have been villainized by removing myself and calmly leaving it at “All he has to do is go to therapy. Then he just has to reach out to me first to show me he has changed and is really trying”
2025-05-12 02:42:19
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greymattermoon :
Speaking truths over here
2025-05-12 01:25:14
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Olybrighteyes :
My mom reached out saying she was ready to listen. Ma’am, I’m the one who has done intensive therapy. Why would I bother because she has done nothing.
2025-05-12 13:32:55
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khw5668 :
Mr brother and I forewarned my Mom before we went NC. If behavior didn’t change we were done. It’s been over 15 years now…
2025-05-12 12:36:45
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Katherine :
Or if they would have talked to us when we tried...... Now it's done. I hope their decisions were worth it.
Love, a Late new GenX mommy.
2025-05-12 13:41:46
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Erika :
I always think maybe she changed and then my kids tell me she went behind my back to my ex to see the kids again and I realize, nothing has changed.
2025-05-12 02:04:30
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Kori Claggett :
My mom said she would do ANYTHING to reengage in mine/my family’s lives. I asked her to go to therapy. She ghosted me. All her friends/remaining family think I’m the bad guy.
2025-05-14 00:05:00
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GrittyKitty1 :
I quiet quit mine. It made no real difference in my life. No fuss, no muss. I am lucky, I guess.
2025-05-12 16:14:01
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Awareness of Alishah :
Thank you so much for this!!!
2025-05-11 23:52:01
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Jhéani | Cycle Breaker 🕊️ :
They act like it’s rocket science why their children don’t talk to them
2025-05-12 16:12:09
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💥🖤 Ashley Storm :
I went NC for 5 years, I live 3000 miles away and we tried phone calls. It lasted 6 weeks before I said absolutely not, I'm finished. She's 84, it's never gonna happen.
2025-05-12 15:47:15
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No respect1970 :
so, what if the parent has reached out many times, offered therapy, done therapy themselves, and still doesn't get answers on why the AC went NC???
2025-05-13 05:44:50
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Brenda Marsh-Bobier :
ok I get there's a lot of parents like that but there are sons and daughters that are toxic too
2025-05-12 19:12:09
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Peruda Florit :
My EM is seeing a therapist BUT she just estranged her own brother and SIL by doing to them what she did to me. She manufactures outrage.
2025-05-12 06:19:17
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🔞❤️🔥🐦🔥JæHart🐦🔥❤️🔥🔞 :
the woman that raised me blamed me for everything even after I begged her to go to therapy with me so she could hear me, my daughter will never know her. she even thought I was lying about my pregnancy to my eldest.
2025-05-13 10:20:57
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David Marrs :
my sister did this until my mom died. she has soooooo much regret.
this is fafo with life. you don't always get a 2nd chance
2025-05-12 18:43:17
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reen :
adult people are not children and many have mental health problems
2025-05-12 20:26:53
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Asmodeus :
I'm not coming back. even if my "mother" changes goes to therapy gets all better.. it's too little too late. There's no what if. I'm not.
2025-05-13 13:22:42
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Vee :
this 👏
2025-05-12 02:04:08
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cbgb3 :
not eveyone who goes no contact with their family has good reason, maybe you did, but not everyone does, some 3strangements are due to childhood jealousies, some are because of disability or mental illness, or selfishness, this isnt a one size fits all situation and it is not always the fault of the person who has been cut off by a family member or family members, not all people who cut off socially a family member have a righteous reason
2025-06-20 21:44:27
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kyandi80 :
It reached a point where it’s the point of no return even if a miracle should happen & she works on not being controlling, vile & manipulative the second she doesn’t get her way
2025-06-12 01:24:04
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Blake Zschering :
not 100% true.
2025-05-13 15:46:32
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