Right it’s such a cop out like grow up and touch a Coochie
2025-05-12 07:47:51
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disarmme :
the biphobia in these comments...
2025-05-13 13:04:08
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Namee :
I dont say hey mamas I say hey mama 🥴
2025-05-13 19:59:58
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Dakota Rose Francis :
As a bi woman, I can understand somewhat why other bi women say this. But women aren’t really what’s scary, what is scary is doing something new and different. Having to unlearn certain things and learn how to have a relationship outside of heteronormativity.
2025-05-13 16:47:12
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babyygirly :
Cuz lesbians are “mean and biphobic” even tho we’re dating bi women more than bi women are. Majority of the community is also bi, idk why they blame lesbians for not being able to date women lol.
2025-05-13 19:10:32
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Abby :
To me that more sounds like nerves and anxiety of unknown. Plus we get a lot of hate for being bi (as shown in the comments)
2025-05-13 08:52:16
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Noctus :
And what they don’t get is that it’s a huge turn off. We hear that, and most of us instantly close off. Whether it’s the internalized homophobia/misogyny or it’s insecurity, it’s just not attractive
2025-05-13 02:24:33
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Murphy :
I think it’s their fear of unlearning. If they date a woman they will have to face the full reality of misogyny and how it shaped their world view, themselves, and what they’ve learned to accept.
2025-05-13 15:46:17
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🇧🇲🇬🇧سامانثا :
Woman can too human are human
2025-07-08 16:19:32
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Lauren :
I feel like it's mostly that we're afraid of the unknown (how to interact with women romantically). ie bc of the patriarchy most women have been conditioned in how to interact with men in that context
2025-05-12 13:16:39
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katieaceae :
I’m def not afraid, biphobia does get exhausting though.
2025-05-13 13:58:42
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goodkoalatea :
i think about this all the time. what do you mean you feel better about getting into a strange man’s car alone at night than you do about going up to that woman to give her a compliment. what are we talking about
2025-05-12 10:33:42
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✨ ASHLI✨😌 :
Whewww comment section full of excuses
2025-05-13 01:56:58
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willow ⚢ :
people being like "but it's so intimidating" or "what if i get rejected" ... do you think we don't have the same experiences? if you want to date women you have to actually make a move.
2025-05-13 11:00:12
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boybutch :
my ex best friend used to be like this and then kept getting into relationships/situationships with abusive, toxic, immature men. like how is talking to a woman more scary than that
2025-05-13 14:23:22
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GABEL :
It’s more of an emotional fear 😓 sadly I’m less afraid to die than I am to truly be loved
2025-05-12 08:58:47
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Rachel Rosario :
I loveeeee women, but they’re so much more intimidating than men to approach.
2025-05-12 18:33:45
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pinkrabe :
bi women who’ve only been with men know how to cope with their fears surrounding men and male violence. they have no idea how to cope with and work through the fresh fear of trying to date women. a lot of them never work through it, but a lot of them do :)
2025-05-13 04:13:33
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Yletheillest :
They’re not scared of women, they’re scared of getting it “wrong” and potentially validating every bisexual stereotype of how bi ppl arent queer enough.
2025-05-13 16:32:06
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angelicughhh :
i’m more afraid that i can’t meet them emotionally. i’m aware i’m avoidant and lack the ability to express my feelings, so i need to work on that first.
2025-05-12 12:33:29
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sara :
a lot of bi women who have only dated men have internalized misogyny and tend to center men in their lives. that’s not an excuse, but it does take a lot of work to unlearn what has been instilled in us.
2025-05-13 17:04:08
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⛤ 𝓝 𝔂 𝔁 ☥ :
I'm actually terrified of men and don't date them...but women intimidate me because I want to impress them so badly and want to be good but I have a lot to unlearn about dating, i never dated in HS so dating is very new to me in general let alone dating a woman
2025-05-13 16:52:29
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Andy🐰🏹🍉 :
I can’t speak for everyone but I feel like it’s not being afraid OF women but afraid of not being good enough FOR women based on F4M relationships
2025-05-14 23:48:27
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M :
I feel more judged😭 men (at least in my experience) don’t think as much. I can just be me bc he probably won’t even notice half of what I’m doing. The women I’ve met analyze everything, I feel way more self conscious of everything I’m doing (even if it’s a normal thing)
2025-05-14 06:14:49
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mj 🍒 :
My theory is it’s like, they don’t see men/people they date as People/have an immature view of relationships and can’t transfer what they know about dating men to dating women. They just treat women like aliens in response idk why
2025-05-13 19:26:15
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