@timferriss: Therapist Terry Real on Normal Marital Hatred. (From my brand-new interview with Terry.) #couples #therapy

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rhondaparks7
Rhonda Parks :
When people stop romanticizing relationships and realize you're relating to another autonomous human being, it's easier to understand, relate, love and also forgive.
2025-05-14 12:07:03
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lovelikesalt
Love Like Salt :
In our hardest time, we went on a date and I saw our future together. We were going to be okay, we just needed to get past having tiny babies. I let it all go and we are madly in love now. Like honeymoon in love, it’s cool.
2025-05-13 15:22:00
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shotones0
ShotOnes :
Sounds like we arent programmed for monogamy
2025-05-13 22:46:31
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julieduncan54
Jewel :
To me, hatred is too strong a word. I don’t hate my spouse. I often times do not like him, but I always love him. 33 years of a solid, loving marriage.
2025-05-14 13:13:13
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ipeakedinthe90s
ipeakedinthe90s :
Watch Four Seasons (the original and the remake) on Netflix—they cover this and it was helpful for me to recognize aspects of my own relationship.
2025-05-14 19:50:53
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to.the.ttt
To the T :
Hatred disappears when a person able to hold 2 truths simultaneously: I love you, I don’t like you now. Dialectical thinking
2025-05-13 15:58:46
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so_cal_mom
Linda Wolfe | +50 UGC :
This is such an important topic that it's not talked about enough. Marriage is not some fairytale can't run away when you hate your partner because in a week you'll probably love them again.
2025-05-15 03:41:31
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nicoleallred87
Nicole Allred :
I very much remember feeling like being married to my partner was so hard, we have been through so many seasons of life, and some of them were horrible. But we are 18 years deep and more in love than ever. Working through the disharmony to find love again, growing our family, working together, it’s magic!
2025-05-14 01:09:24
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warrenbischoff
Warren Bischoff :
If you can thru that hatred regularly you can stay married ❤️
2025-05-14 00:08:45
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mamatalucci
MamaTalucci :
Hatred is a pretty strong word but I appreciate the concept behind the theory. My theory is space and grace. Grant each other a little space to cool down but the grace to come back and repair.
2025-05-15 12:32:21
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tacotime155
Tacotime125 :
What if your spouse has trauma, alcohol and prescription drug problems?
2025-05-14 02:08:39
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rebelwealthacademy
Rebel Wealth Academy :
I love this! He’s so right!
2025-05-13 09:22:43
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bushrasam_
Ur Mum :
What if it’s just hatred
2025-06-19 11:03:17
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trees_2020
Mari :
He hid who he was for 20 years. Then he used the truth as a trap
2025-05-14 21:49:27
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grimbles2005
user9664305005106 :
You don’t know marital hatred till you have to deal with kids too…
2025-05-13 12:56:10
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savvyrenovator
Savvy Renovator :
Been there lol
2025-05-24 00:50:43
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andreaferguson02
Andrea Ferguson :
My guess is if you have to ask it’s too much.
2025-05-12 14:18:49
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kendahlkendahl
Kendahl Kendahl :
It’s all about respect. Once u loose respect for someone it’s hard.
2025-05-14 20:40:04
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ghhs1986
GHHS1986 :
But what if there’s no accountability? What if there’s no desire for Repair? On both sides; one has tried for accountability. The other things they’ve done nothing wrong therefore, why should they work towards Repair? Only makes the hatred worse.
2025-05-15 16:52:32
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deucelee7
Dirk Diggler :
Is Tim Ferris still not married with kids? If so, so sad.😞
2025-05-15 03:13:33
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hikehikebaby
hikehikebaby :
Not for every couple. Maybe early in the relationship, but for truly happily married couples, this just isn’t accurate.
2025-05-14 15:01:24
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jardbumblebee
Hobbs :
This is so so true, as long as there is no adulatory or abuse of any kind stick it out! It’s a cycle of feelings
2025-05-14 01:20:17
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donald.wiest
donald.wiest :
The term was coined by therapist David Schnarch, and the word “normal” it contains is ironic - if so many marriages have “dysfunctional” conflict, Schnarch reasoned, it would only been fair to describe it as “normal.”
2025-05-13 16:32:19
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mommato12
mommato12 :
Every now & then, most marriages need a reset.
2025-05-15 11:09:18
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albershots
Albert S :
Isn’t this the guy for the 10 keys?
2025-05-16 04:37:12
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