When people stop romanticizing relationships and realize you're relating to another autonomous human being, it's easier to understand, relate, love and also forgive.
2025-05-14 12:07:03
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Love Like Salt :
In our hardest time, we went on a date and I saw our future together. We were going to be okay, we just needed to get past having tiny babies. I let it all go and we are madly in love now. Like honeymoon in love, it’s cool.
2025-05-13 15:22:00
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ShotOnes :
Sounds like we arent programmed for monogamy
2025-05-13 22:46:31
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Jewel :
To me, hatred is too strong a word. I don’t hate my spouse. I often times do not like him, but I always love him. 33 years of a solid, loving marriage.
2025-05-14 13:13:13
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ipeakedinthe90s :
Watch Four Seasons (the original and the remake) on Netflix—they cover this and it was helpful for me to recognize aspects of my own relationship.
2025-05-14 19:50:53
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To the T :
Hatred disappears when a person able to hold 2 truths simultaneously: I love you, I don’t like you now. Dialectical thinking
2025-05-13 15:58:46
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Linda Wolfe | +50 UGC :
This is such an important topic that it's not talked about enough. Marriage is not some fairytale can't run away when you hate your partner because in a week you'll probably love them again.
2025-05-15 03:41:31
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Nicole Allred :
I very much remember feeling like being married to my partner was so hard, we have been through so many seasons of life, and some of them were horrible. But we are 18 years deep and more in love than ever. Working through the disharmony to find love again, growing our family, working together, it’s magic!
2025-05-14 01:09:24
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Warren Bischoff :
If you can thru that hatred regularly you can stay married ❤️
2025-05-14 00:08:45
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MamaTalucci :
Hatred is a pretty strong word but I appreciate the concept behind the theory. My theory is space and grace. Grant each other a little space to cool down but the grace to come back and repair.
2025-05-15 12:32:21
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Tacotime125 :
What if your spouse has trauma, alcohol and prescription drug problems?
2025-05-14 02:08:39
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Rebel Wealth Academy :
I love this! He’s so right!
2025-05-13 09:22:43
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Ur Mum :
What if it’s just hatred
2025-06-19 11:03:17
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Mari :
He hid who he was for 20 years. Then he used the truth as a trap
2025-05-14 21:49:27
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user9664305005106 :
You don’t know marital hatred till you have to deal with kids too…
2025-05-13 12:56:10
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Savvy Renovator :
Been there lol
2025-05-24 00:50:43
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Andrea Ferguson :
My guess is if you have to ask it’s too much.
2025-05-12 14:18:49
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Kendahl Kendahl :
It’s all about respect. Once u loose respect for someone it’s hard.
2025-05-14 20:40:04
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GHHS1986 :
But what if there’s no accountability? What if there’s no desire for Repair? On both sides; one has tried for accountability. The other things they’ve done nothing wrong therefore, why should they work towards Repair? Only makes the hatred worse.
2025-05-15 16:52:32
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Dirk Diggler :
Is Tim Ferris still not married with kids? If so, so sad.😞
2025-05-15 03:13:33
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hikehikebaby :
Not for every couple. Maybe early in the relationship, but for truly happily married couples, this just isn’t accurate.
2025-05-14 15:01:24
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Hobbs :
This is so so true, as long as there is no adulatory or abuse of any kind stick it out! It’s a cycle of feelings
2025-05-14 01:20:17
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donald.wiest :
The term was coined by therapist David Schnarch, and the word “normal” it contains is ironic - if so many marriages have “dysfunctional” conflict, Schnarch reasoned, it would only been fair to describe it as “normal.”
2025-05-13 16:32:19
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mommato12 :
Every now & then, most marriages need a reset.
2025-05-15 11:09:18
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Albert S :
Isn’t this the guy for the 10 keys?
2025-05-16 04:37:12
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