Queer Collective Podcast
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Monday 12 May 2025 16:05:01 GMT
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Eve Cong 江伊芙 :
She’s speaking specifically about interracial adoption in particular white ppl adopting non-white babies, it’s an important distinction.
2025-05-12 23:09:24
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Wendy Hayes :
Yesss! So glad to seeing adoption being talked about from this perspective. So important for us to understand this.
2025-08-01 00:22:03
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Lil’ Lemon :
To me, it just seems like the basic bare minimum for parents adopting a child, ESPECIALLY if they are a part of another culture/race, or even have a disability, to educate themselves on how they can honour their child’s identity, how that will shape their experiences and making sure the child has resources to feel connected with their identity within and outside of the household
2025-07-22 22:00:51
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Anna Alexandria 🫧 :
Interesting…I’m also adopted by white parents and none of these things have ever applied in my life. I’m so sorry ppl sometimes don’t have positive experiences.
2025-05-18 02:39:37
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shesellsseashellsnomore🇨🇦 :
As an adoptive mom I’ve always been aware that I benefitted from another woman’s loss/pain. And that adopting these children was to serve my selfish need to be a mother. I’ve never made my kids feel that they owe me anything and have done everything I can to ensure they’ve remained connected to their birth /origin as much as possible.
2025-05-13 16:31:15
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Lu :
Finally another adoptee, putting what I’ve been feeling into words. Another Asian adoptee
2025-05-13 12:54:22
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calistajianyun :
From a fellow adoptee, thank you 💕
2025-05-13 10:22:22
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gancosstory :
This is so well spoken and such an interesting, thought provoking, topic!
2025-05-14 02:16:05
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Amy F 🇿🇦 🇮🇲 :
Phew as an adopted person, I felt the gratitude element - constantly having to appear grateful for being chosen was exhausting.
2025-05-12 19:54:31
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🌱 :
She speaks so incredibly well!
2025-05-13 09:01:00
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Calliope :
My mom did this to me and threatened to sent me back to the foster home 💀
2025-05-13 06:56:04
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Sh00tingstarNZ :
closed adoption is such an awful situation. I'm so glad we are moving away from it as a society
2025-05-16 02:20:45
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Heidi 🇳🇿🏳️🌈🇨🇦 :
Truth yes yes yes .
2025-05-16 08:07:47
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Pimp Daddy S :
I am an adoptee w white parents and I think I hit the mfn jackpot. I've never felt this way in my family. they had no expectations of me except to be a good person. I'm so sorry for those who didn't have that
2025-05-13 14:45:19
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Crushin_it_daily :
This sounds like a personal issue within herself.. the adopted parents are probably wonderful and regret this decision now..
2025-05-13 11:18:38
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vivalavia_96 :
I believe it’s important to see her perspective, and not to judge. She has her own experience and we need to be respectful of that. ✨
2025-05-13 19:05:16
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AlenciaJanae :
What did they do exactly?
2025-07-02 23:52:11
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K :
Guys you can adopt interracially mindfully by making sure your children DO have connections from their culture/race - Find your local communities, move somewhere where there are some, or dont adopt interracially 🤷♀️
2025-05-16 00:17:35
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allisonsmith732 :
Know several white couples who adopted Asian children, and none of them want to make a connection to asian culture or community, my children are half Asian and I can’t imagine them not having community connections.
2025-06-05 06:20:38
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Jeffery Francis Jr :
in 15 years we're gonna hear alot of similar themed stories from the people who got caught up in the woke madness
2025-05-14 14:24:00
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Sofia Del Carmen Jim :
This is all very cynical and depressing. It’s never too late to heal your relationships with ur parents…love transcends race, culture
2025-05-14 05:32:41
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Dee Blew :
God this makes me not want to adopt and do surrogacy instead
2025-05-14 06:03:16
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librafalls1 :
Wow!
2025-05-13 07:44:57
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lauwoon3 :
Adopting a child outside of your culture, ethnicity and race, and not providing them with the tools to connect with their culture and interact with their pairs should be considered abuse. As an adoptive parent you have the responsibility of making that child feel safe and understood.
2025-05-13 02:13:00
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Lil' SWEATY BABY :
Just remember that your trauma comes from your birth parents giving you up. Not from your adoptive parents treating you through a white lens.
2025-05-13 10:10:18
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