@cypher.j: Actually reconciling your problems is far more valuable than simply redoing the ending to a movie you hated. You can tell new stories together, without always needing to forgive the older ones! Part 2!!#blacklove #blackphilosophy #black #relationships #closure
Closure is just grief bargaining for a better strory👏👏👏👏
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mariammoro5 :
" You wanted the ending to match the love you gave"🥺
2025-05-12 22:42:16
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simonefasho :
Needed this BADLY
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Ben Pod :
‘You heal when you stop auditioning for your own worth’
2025-05-12 20:38:46
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byeheaux_ :
The closure is acknowledging the experience you had without needing them to validate it
2025-05-13 03:26:52
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Pinkie :
accept that they suck and move on.
2025-05-12 21:41:05
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Michael Petrakis :
I BEG you, read Winner Effect Girlfriend Game by Kyrie Dotts. This book will change your life.
2025-05-13 18:16:18
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Zimasa Mbonelwa :
😭😭 since you got your degree-
2025-05-13 09:27:35
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BIG DRUID :
Aight bro you gotta be stopped
2025-05-13 03:14:20
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Michael Osunmuyiwa ♐️♐️♐️ :
Those that hurt you can’t help you heal.
2025-05-12 20:32:50
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☆°•°faz°•°☆ :
I just opened the app please😮💨
2025-05-12 21:26:10
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Marcello :
Ref do something….
2025-05-12 20:19:35
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Jada :
The disrespect was closure !!!
2025-05-13 13:00:09
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Carvel Notes :
“Life doesn’t always write justice into the script” is a major life key!!!!
2025-05-12 23:20:54
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escanorsinofpride5 :
1. “Closure is a fantasy of control…”
Hold on. Isn’t that a bit too cynical? It’s not about the fantasy of a better ending, but the reality of clarity. Denying closure as a legitimate need dismisses the very human craving for narrative coherence. We are storytelling creatures we need meaning to move on.
2025-05-14 13:54:24
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trigggooo :
“Grief bargaining for a better story” sheesh let me call my therapist
2025-05-13 01:20:26
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Adrian :
This dude is the modern day Socrates🙏🏽
2025-05-12 20:33:56
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Victoria B. :
“Closure” is understanding that there is nothing left for you in that phase of your life
2025-05-13 03:36:25
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courntea :
you couldn’t hold my hand first? 😭😭
2025-05-13 14:25:52
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Rainbow :
Sir, it's 06:20 in 🇿🇦😭
2025-05-13 04:19:55
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Omar :
You’re making a great point which is wht I’m gonna skip halfway through 🙏
2025-05-29 17:51:19
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Magnus Carter :
Life isn't actually a story. It normally does lacks clear endings or beginnings
2025-05-13 06:44:04
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Somewhere :
"We want the rupture to feel fair" whew
2025-05-14 22:34:29
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monochromaticmikaela :
You’re my favorite person on this app
2025-05-12 23:41:34
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Shaniece Phillips :
I realized a few months ago, that the closure I wanted was actually rooted in wanting to be told what I did wrong/what was wrong with me, so I could try to change for him 😢 I'm so glad I can see that clearly now and am healing the things that made me want that.
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