@yuvaltheterrible: Replying to @Yuval it also kinda sounds like having women be the stage manager of your life & making all the decisions, which is also decidedly not what they want #men #women #relationships #marriage #advice #hottake
A lot of older people like to “joke” that marriage is a prison. Like… it’s not funny. It’s just sad.
2025-05-12 21:15:33
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Dr. Blitz :
so I'm a fairly young guy (31) who has been with his now wife for nearly 14 years. I *adore* my wife. But I also sometimes find I have to put my ego aside about being right and just recognize that she needs wins sometimes just like I do. when I sense she needs the win, I'm absolutely happy to let go of whatever my disagreement is so that she can be happier. I'd rather her be happy than me get satisfaction about being right. maybe that's not what the guy meant, but I think framing it the way I described *is* good advice.
2025-05-12 21:20:16
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damestes :
marry your bestfriend nothing less
2025-05-12 21:21:58
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Jett :
I just don’t understand how people MARRY someone they dislike?
2025-05-13 03:16:49
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Jinn :
Fun fact: humans arent meant to mate for life
2025-05-24 10:53:02
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honk 💗 :
when i even FEEL like my partner is hitting me with a “yes dear you’re right” to end a conversation i get SO hurt
2025-05-13 04:50:02
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ZoZ :
He could’ve said “trust your wife’s wisdom” 🤷🏾♂️
2025-05-12 23:17:35
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VoltaReborn :
On the day of my wedding I was told “Happy wife, happy life” in that exact negative tone you’re talking about. I was not a fan of the advice.
2025-05-12 21:17:50
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annieneufie🇨🇦🇬🇧 :
I would feel so patronized if my fiancé always agreed with me just to get me to stop talking
2025-05-13 07:30:05
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☪️🏳️🌈🇷🇺🇺🇦🇨🇳🇹🇼 :
But I do hate my wife
2025-05-13 14:01:29
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Average Joe :
“My wife is always right” is a funny joke and I’d always say that, but people who actually live by that don’t respect their wives/girlfriends are not truly listening to them and just blow them off
2025-05-12 21:17:31
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Bad Luck Charm :
I'm so glad "I hate my wife" jokes are dying out. I'm sure they'll start back up if we get rid of no fault divorce.
2025-05-12 21:45:16
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ari.starry :
its basically "agree to every single thing she says or else she'll throw a temper tantrum and divorce you"
2025-05-13 11:38:56
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Verdant :
“Just say yes to whatever she says” sounds like hell
2025-05-13 19:53:19
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Killian :
unfortunately this becomes a deeply self-fulfilling cycle. when old men make "never disagree with the wife" a masculine identifier, we get generations of women talking about the "sassy man apocalypse" when men are honest and forthcoming with their issues
2025-05-12 21:43:20
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Slimithy :
You’re assuming talking to your wife will actually change anything. 99% of the time you’ll have to agree with her regardless of your stance on the issue, or deal with the consequences. Guys say these things because they’re TRUE
2025-05-13 19:26:13
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Zenix :
I think when you’ve been with someone for so many years arguing just feels pointless I don’t think they hate their wives I feel like they just don’t care enough about the actual argument it’s like with your younger brother you’ve known him for so long that sometimes when you argue you may just conceded cause the argument may not be worth the hassle cause you already understand how the argument will go like and how it ends. Because you understand their thought process and personality so well. That you could almost predict its conclusion.
2025-05-12 21:20:12
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55cray :
As a millennial I love my wife, she is my Queen. Never understood that boomer mentality of “wife bad”
2025-05-12 21:19:11
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diagnose_me_daddy :
I’ve been married for 7 years. Old people always assume marriages is great because we’re still young. No. It’s because we understand that it’s us vs problems not spouse vs spouse. That requires patience, communication, and compassion. Which seems to be in short supply for a lot of people.
2025-05-12 21:37:44
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WISE_FISH :
The couple just went 😃👍😃👍 completely ignoring the guy and I find it hilarious
2025-05-12 21:31:10
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🦋🌼 :
You’re overanalyzing it and talking from self-awareness. Most men NEED to be reminded every day that they need to respect a woman, no matter is their wife, sister, or neighbor. Because the baseline is man's insecurities + hatred towards women.
2025-05-13 08:23:22
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Clarissa 🔪 :
You explained this FLAWLESSLY, it’s angles of situations like this that people just don’t consider. Everyone takes things at face value
2025-05-12 21:20:15
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aidenb424 :
I disagree. They don’t hate their wives, they love their wives. That’s why they put their wives happiness above their own. They dont feel having to regulate their wives emotions is worth being ‘right’.
2025-05-13 01:12:53
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pure evil :
yeah ur right but still just say yes
2025-06-08 17:02:03
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