@mackenzieherman: When the avoidant goes silent, it’s not just quiet, it’s confusing, painful, and feels like punishment. But to them, it’s safety. Let’s talk about what’s really happening and why it hurts so bad. #attachmentstyles #relationshipcoach #avoidantattachment #HealingJourney #toxicrelationships #understandavoidants #emotionallyunavailable #MentalHealthAwareness #avoidantsilenttreatment #relationshipanxiety #attachmenttrauma #dismissiveavoidant #silenttreatmenthurt #anxiousattachmentstyle #breakthecycle #avoidantsilence #anxiousvsavoidant #emotionalabandonment #healingtools #attachmentwounds #hurtbyasilentpartner #anxioushurt #avoidantshutmeout #attachmenteducation #whytheyghosted
dealing with an avoidant was a traumatic experience
2025-05-13 23:06:40
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peaknuckle :
Protecting themselves from love and accountability
2025-05-13 14:04:45
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Sheyla :
I’m sick of hearing “I don’t know what to say”
2025-05-19 11:57:09
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JustCancelMeNow :
They avoid people who they actually really care about losing while allowing dysfunctional people to stay and cause chaos. This is why they’re always a victim and sad inside. They’re their own worst enemy.
2025-05-14 13:03:38
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Kristin faith :
it's emotional abuse plain and simple.
2025-05-13 17:30:47
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Natalie :
I feel so embarrassed and hurt . He completely disappeared and I begged him on messages for 2 weeks. He never answered but still hasn’t blocked me. I don’t know what I done wrong except accept him as he is 💔
2025-05-13 14:48:30
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tyty.hustisya :
stonewalling. it’s intensely invalidating and dehumanizing.
2025-05-14 16:40:00
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𝙽𝚢𝙽𝚢🤎 🐆 :
When do they ever realize what they did was absolutely wrong? Do they ever have a breaking point?
2025-05-13 13:07:02
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user200568 :
All I want him to feel the pain i have been gone through to be honest. I want him to feel it. If karma is real i want him to feel my pain.
2025-05-14 09:58:20
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dev.denelle :
Then there’s no point to no contact because they get what they want. To use you, discard you then be happy you left them alone. Deleted him everywhere. He can be happy. I can have peace knowing I’m good enough. He wasn’t! Just looked to blame me when he never loved me!
2025-05-13 14:34:00
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CaptHoudini :
No that’s not true, they go silent because 1. Your emotions are overwhelming and they don’t know how to handle it since their emotions as soooo suppressed 2. they don’t know how to corregulate 3. They don’t know how to manage conflicts (defensive) 4. They don’t know what to say or how to even communicate it. While it’s not your job to stay, don’t demonize it if you don’t have adequate knowledge. Anxious is equally not ideal.
2025-05-15 11:49:59
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Wildflower Creations 🌻🦢🩰 :
It’s absolutely cruelty
2025-05-13 20:29:48
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Eve-of-Milady :
These folks are exhausting. I chose to avoid them once I identify who they are...I don't want a selfish project.
2025-05-13 14:27:29
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aidan :
It’s just so unfair. Why do they get to avoid the conversation and live their life when all I can think about is just talking to them?? It’s exhausting wanting to try so hard and for them to push away so much
2025-05-15 12:43:02
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HeidiStayBold :
So what is one supposed to do?
2025-05-31 03:38:18
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Matryoshka Meow :
Got discarded this afternoon after our reuniting weekend trip 💔
2025-05-14 03:29:31
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Amandame :
So they want us to continue to chase them to show/prove our love?!
2025-05-13 13:58:07
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Chrissy :
What if you've had conflicts with them and they go silent on you?
2025-05-13 13:41:04
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Suffiyah Ramadhani🌹 :
Well, give them more gift of silence❤️
2025-05-13 23:07:00
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Nom_Fam :
Silence to you but the life of the party to everyone else, especially your replacement 😒
2025-05-24 10:34:10
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Fyo :
how to approach avoidant after no contact without triggering there attachment issue?
2025-05-13 12:57:04
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seraphine.sinclair :
What is the avoidant deepest fear ?
2025-05-13 21:25:17
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Lauren ❀ :
He’s texted me 3 times each saying something out of control. He wasn’t expecting me to go silent but for me to chase. He’s a fearful avoidant. He’s losing control. He asked for space and time. Multiple times saying he’s not putting us getting back together off the table
2025-05-13 20:40:07
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