@60minutes9: When two mothers in South Africa learned their sons had accidentally been switched at birth, they made the agonising decision not to swap them back. Would you have done the same? Watch the full story and more on our YouTube channel - link in our bio. #60Mins
This forgets to mention one family was rich and the other poor
2025-05-17 15:59:06
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MeredithOZ🇦🇺 :
1989 - Both families chose to keep the children they had raised. Gavin was raised by Meg, a more affluent family, while Robin was raised by Sandy, who struggled financially. They referred to each other as brothers. Robin eventually chose to move in with his bio mum, Meg, at age 15!
2025-05-16 15:05:59
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Sariah 🇦🇺🇵🇪 :
I would have swapped to have my own baby.
2025-05-15 04:40:32
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Emer McK :
Should have raised them as brothers. Like shared custody
2025-05-15 04:56:42
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Ro No :
I would’ve remained solid friends with the other family and made sure that we kept updated with everything and invited them to all special occasions
2025-05-15 04:38:15
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justasbifsn :
At 20 months the loss of an caregiver can cause irreparable damage to a growing child. As is seen in cases of adoption when the child struggles to form bonds with a new caregiver. I understand ethically that you want the baby you gave birth to. But I think they made the right decision for them at the time.
2025-05-15 06:30:00
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spicecottage :
One was a rich family, the other poor. A lot of resentment.
2025-05-15 22:41:00
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🄼🄰🄲 :
This story is so very old. Robin is married and has many children now and he has a loving relationship with his biological mother and not the mother who raised him. Gavin has come out and is happy having fun with his friends. They all get along but Sandy seems to have been left out of everything.
2025-05-15 04:43:58
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Nicky :
As a mother there is no way I could just give up my child after 2 years of loving them because of a baby swap. Awful situation
2025-05-15 04:27:29
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K :
We had the same situation in South Africa
2025-05-20 14:08:28
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Never ending :
Definitely swapped for my biological son, children adjust at that young age and you could have kept in contact
2025-05-15 15:04:18
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Liz :
I wouldn’t be swapping them back, shared time is what I would like. Plus a huge pay out to raise them.
2025-05-16 03:51:07
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joeright1234 :
better to have never known
2025-05-16 08:15:42
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Paula McGowan #Oliverscampaign :
The families should have had professional support to work with them in transitioning both boys back to their birth parents over a period of time.
2025-05-16 23:35:41
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Lisa :
no judgement to either of them at the time. would be so hard
2025-05-15 03:50:20
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Alxandria375 :
I felt so sorry for Sandy, that Gavin (who didn’t want a relationship with her) was just a bit spoilt and wanted the nicer life. I understood why Ryan was resentful too. However the fact both are adults now and neither have a relationship with Sandy is suspect to me. I get kids wanting the richer parents, but there seems to be something more there for Ryan to still not speak with her…
2025-05-17 17:08:15
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scott thomson :
What good could possibly come from not switching them back.
2025-05-16 19:57:26
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shannonK1 :
I agree. They ended up doing a lot more damage because they didn't swap.
2025-05-15 06:43:23
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deepblue :
20 month vs rest of their lives I would have swapped, selfish choices made here😳
2025-05-17 05:04:36
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Dan Dan :
Double edge sword!!! Impossible
2025-05-24 23:57:47
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I am an African :
that was a very bad decision, carry a baby gor 9 months , your blood and guve then away like that...i mean what is 20 months compared to a life time
2025-05-17 10:10:50
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Charlotte darling🇬🇧 :
Swapping them at 2 years old would have been horrific for them.
2025-05-17 22:10:35
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user4410181935948 :
Crazy story not sure what I do
2025-05-15 03:14:15
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Kofeffee :
I totally disagree with these parents. When they discovered the switch, they should’ve rectified it then, because now it’s the children, that have to wonder what their life might have been.
2025-05-15 22:00:27
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HutchyBoo :
I think if the child is only 2 years ago you could swap that that age maybe up to 4. The child would have no recollection of it at that young age.
2025-05-15 13:19:34
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