@qiang8898: I turned 30 and threw myself a party. Nobody came. A week later, Mom sent an invite: Dad's 50th birthday, $1,800 per person. Venmo me. Not even a sorry, just a bill. I sent $1 with a note: congratulations. I changed the locks, blocked every number. Two days later, my sister tried to access the joint account—blocked. Then they reported me as a missing person. Police showed up at my door. #reddit#foryou#usa