Can we normalize humiliating them when they don’t know anything about their own children?
2025-05-16 17:51:02
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Bluff park :
Hi. Therapist here. I work with men in court mandated therapy. Lack of empathy, weaponized incompetence, and learned helplessness is harm. Toxic masculinity is a public health crisis that we need to talk more about.
2025-05-16 15:20:37
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Lilac Honey Heart 🏳️🌈🇸🇪 :
What the men who cry "male loneliness epedemic" don't/refuse to relize is that it's natrual selection at work. Toxic/narcissistic/psycopathic men don't get to forward their bad traits.
2025-05-19 09:21:38
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🩷 :
Stop normalizing males. I refuse to date/marry/have shmex or bare children.
2025-05-18 01:41:48
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user3723975108359 :
There is not a male loneliness epidemic, it is a male consequence epidemic
2025-05-17 22:24:56
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megan :
performative exhaustion too
2025-05-17 01:01:45
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Bogdan Dinu 🇷🇴🇪🇺 :
you mean like "I'm a girl" excuse? 🤣
2025-05-19 05:07:32
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Alan Perry :
You need to quit sleeping with sorry men.
2025-05-17 13:03:11
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Ella ✨ :
THANK YOU!! I‘ve been thinking that for a while and I‘m glad I‘m not the only one!!
2025-05-19 11:29:45
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RebirthoftheMak🍉 :
Thank you! People are like “TRUE narcissists and TRUE sociopaths are rarely diagnosed” like ya duh a person that thinks nothing is wrong with them wouldn’t seek out a diagnosis?? With how the world is they being bred rampantly these days it’s just more in our face bc of social media
2025-05-17 11:25:44
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Itstihana_ :
It’s not because they’re incompetent, it’s because they don’t care.
2025-05-18 11:16:27
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Emceericee :
The whole trad-wife moniker is just permission structure for normalizing this behavior, disguised as some sort positive movement for women in an attempt to return a non-existent “better time”. 🤮
2025-05-16 15:24:50
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Wangwiggawong :
Gender wars in 2025🥀
2025-05-17 16:27:02
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xxyasminexx :
I’m so tired of society coddling and infantilizing them, and putting their heinous behavior under the rug as if it’s just a normal character trait when it’s purposeful and deliberate Weaponized incompetence
2025-05-17 17:20:27
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Nicky Jenson :
My ex husband reprimanded me for not having our two sons social security numbers memorized. I immediately asked him their birthdates. He had no clue. Now he doesn’t even know their ages. He has to ask me.
2025-05-17 10:43:30
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phoenixmayes :
But yet these are the same “men” that scream the loudest about having to pay child support when she leaves him.
2025-05-16 15:29:19
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The Drizzard of OZ :
Stop attacking something normal with innacurate anecdotes. Typical whitechick
2025-05-17 15:29:46
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MigratoryBirdTreatyActof1918 :
I’m the sociopath according to my exes
2025-05-17 00:45:40
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Sydney Raven :
My dad got married to my step mom on my birthday because he didn’t know when it was.
2025-05-17 13:13:59
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choishley :
I’d argue that patholigizing these behaviors by calling them “sociopathic” (see also “narcissistic”) serves to normalize it just as much as anything else. There is nothing cognitively or physically wrong with most men making them this way. They’re just evil, they CHOOSE to be evil. Mental conditions are not a choice, ideological beliefs that they’re superior to others ARE a choice. It’s not sociopathy, it’s misogyny
2025-05-16 23:36:01
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Xavvy-says-no 🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈🇨🇦 :
you are absolutely right. as a trans woman i remember the way my older half brother was socialized by my father and how he tried to with me.. they normalize sociopathic behaviors starting as young as possible. we see it as toddlers and for me it took until my late teens to fully understand why it's such a problem. my brother has no empathy where as I'm and extreme in the opposite direction.. I just don't know how we stop it. my whole life i argued with the men around me but was never listened to, mostly because I was always perceived as an other.. a femme thing.. they only listen to men that are hyper masculine who are atop that social hierarchy.. it's really sad. I haven't had any friends who are men for decades for these reasons.
2025-05-18 03:39:53
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Aims :
keep spreading the word. Maybe the younger generations wont have to learn the same lessons we did
2025-05-16 23:58:27
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Morgan McCullough :
As much as I love this, I do want to point out that there is a huge difference between behaviors that show lack of empathy and an ASPD diagnosis. There is no such thing as “low level sociopathy”. You either meet the criteria for ASPD or you don’t
2025-05-17 17:12:30
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GirlSimmer :
I think there is exactly 1 of 2 ways we could possibly come about this. 1) socialize woman and young girls to NEVER depend on a man, to never get married and not have babies unless theyre 1000% ready to have one and completely abandon men all together (only the good fathers/husband and therefore, good men ever get "picked" by woman) or 2) we become the bullies men have been. we use the same power tactics they use to keep other men in the property heigherarchy positions. other than that I cannot fathom a way to "fix" this issue as a woman
2025-05-17 13:05:02
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