This is a very privileged point of view, it isn’t always this black and white. Especially when physical ill health comes after emotional ill health/lifelong trauma, bringing on financial insecurity and preventing access to treatment. It’s not always easy or even possible for some people to change their lives! We must change what we are able to change, sure, but accepting what you can’t is equally important
2025-05-20 12:24:39
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India | The Brown Therapist :
To an extent yes but it’s been scientifically proven that trauma alters the brain structure and functions
2025-05-20 06:53:23
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Eman :
Thats not how it works for everyone
2025-05-31 19:56:33
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Stacey Bink :
I am who I am because of my past. I refuse to have children because of my past I refuse to give myself to a man because of my past. every decision I make it's because of my past. I'm building my life for the better because of my past.
2025-05-20 05:45:08
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liolko :
Nope, you are always the product of how you were raised and in what environment. I still have panic attacks, Fibromyalgia and other health related issues from the stress from my childhood and I'm 20. My muscles are always tense and my body is always in fight or flight state because I grew up in the unsafe environment, and all this obviously effects my life quality
2025-05-20 22:30:15
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✨ :
I think this depends, some people have been living in abusive situations since they were basically able to talk, & it’s not as easy for them. Especially if their life is in potential danger if they leave
2025-05-19 20:06:48
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victoria nd :
This. Sometimes you need to realize that yes you’ve been hurt. But you need to heal now. Not because your past has shaped the person you are today that It’ll definitely shape your future too. Growth is part of the process so do so. And remember, create a life you want to live and love even if it’s difficult. 🩷
2025-05-20 04:02:27
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unknown678 :
You’ll never know until it happens to you. Never judge someone life
2025-05-20 19:46:15
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Teejay✨ :
Don’t let your past determine your present
2025-05-27 22:06:35
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acinom🌹 :
that's why i personally chose to remain kind and loving despite the tramas I've went through since young... i do not use them as an excuse but that feels unfair for me sometimes.... i just cry to validate myself.... do i even make sense... 😔😮💨
2025-05-21 10:31:33
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Ells🫶🏻 :
You’ve hit a lot of nerves with this pov. As someone who fights daily even with therapy to be better and not allow my children to be a product of the same environment I was and the same daily inner battles I fight, I don’t think it has anything to do with choice. Inconsideration at its finest.
2025-05-20 18:18:49
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vanwyk_v :
I love your content. It is both authentic, realistic yet healing. The perspective as well.💗
2025-05-18 20:24:41
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Ma meilleure ennemie c'est toi :
" you can just use the power of friendship " ahh post
2025-05-20 09:13:35
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damuwa :
You have a choice.
2025-05-20 06:42:39
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𝐷 :
I think that can not be said so generally, because some people still live in very conservative cultures and unfortunately there is a lot of pressure and control at home
2025-05-20 08:32:50
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_ndrh29🍵 :
how am i supposed move on or heal from the pain i didn't give to myself?..
2025-05-20 02:12:02
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NIFEMI :
It's painful healing from pain you didn't give yourself..it necessary but painful,and those who cause you pain are just...there
2025-05-19 21:23:07
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Blaqru-Virtual Business Help :
Not entirely true
2025-05-20 01:05:30
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Lanny .:• :
I see the intent, but this view reflects and position of privilege. Many have never dared to dream of solace & peace…and may never encounter such in their lifetime.
2025-05-20 17:51:09
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Mars the planet 🌕✨ :
does she even have a psychology degree to back this take 😭😭😭
2025-05-20 18:22:15
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Queen👸 :
I needed to see this😩 thanks
2025-05-18 21:12:31
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DillkeBaat_>🍉 :
love this
2025-05-18 20:09:59
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hijab_rm⁷♥️🇵🇸 :
She didn’t say its white and black nor did she say it’s easy nor did she say that everyone is able to do this all alone. But taking the step towards healing is ur responsibility with or without the help of people, it will be hard and it will be horrible fr but you’ll get there one day and thats all you need to believe in💕
2025-05-20 16:42:02
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꧁𝑎꧂ :
say it louder for the people in the back
2025-05-20 04:45:54
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Ahh_well :
Generational poverty would beg to differ
2025-05-23 00:06:46
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