@itsamymillie: We all carry pain. But that doesn’t make it a free pass to project it onto others. Yes, people are hurting. And yes, that hurt can spill over. But we can’t keep using pain as an explanation that lets us off the hook. Your wounds might explain the impulse but they don’t excuse the impact. Healing means recognising the pattern and choosing differently, because it’s the only way we stop cycles of harm from repeating. #emotionalintelligence #selfawareness #Relationship #relationshiptips #LifeAdvice #selfdevelopment #CapCut
"being hurt is not a free pass, it's a reason to do the work", brilliant
2025-05-20 15:57:19
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Zoe Morana :
very true!! in the artist's way, julia cameron says the blocked artists, or people who refuse to face themselves, often become abusers. meanwhile those who are busy actually following their path won't push that energy onto others
2025-05-20 18:32:15
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Kelly Tull :
Louder for the ones in the back!!!
2025-05-22 22:55:03
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Merc :
Working with it or handing it over: totally the point: well said :)
2025-05-21 04:04:19
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Jeremy :
Sooo good!
2025-05-20 18:26:55
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Ryan G. :
Finally back on my page, and so soon, too!
2025-05-20 14:11:17
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StudioWestFour :
Absolutely
2025-05-29 13:17:03
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alhambra :
I never thought the saying was to dismiss or allow their actions, I always thought it was for peace of mind the the one being hurt. in the sense that they aren't hurting you to hurt you, they are hurting and passing it along.
2025-05-23 03:55:45
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beth :
I agree, I also hate this phrase it doesn't make it okay to hurt others
2025-05-20 16:46:05
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EatSleepDave :
very true. also you look amazing! sorry had to say it. you points are exactly right.
2025-05-20 13:53:26
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Gina Gayle :
Agree! I’ve added to that saying “heal YOUR emotional wounds to stop the cycle”.
2025-06-07 17:47:13
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Larry Fulkerson :
where have you been.
2025-05-30 04:07:54
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Fourleafclover🍀 :
I hate that phrase for exactly that reasoning. thank you
2025-05-28 20:00:25
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Indie :
Subconsciously we pass this pain to others. Is this something we can control? Like I often only reflect after the damage is done. Is this bc neurodivergence?
2025-05-25 12:46:00
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Harriet | Writer + Listener :
This is so important
2025-05-23 17:50:14
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Jacob :
Great point ❤️
2025-05-23 03:24:50
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Makelle Berry :
thank you for this post and for saying this. ✨
2025-05-23 01:48:32
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pabrie333 :
Appreciate this thank You for this insight:)
2025-05-22 19:30:00
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2025-05-21 18:14:04
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Bryan Castle Jr :
I’ve often used the phrase, but I also like your take on it. 👍
2025-05-21 03:16:50
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Rodney Kenny Henry :
🥰🥰🥰
2025-06-02 22:23:04
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oscarjr :
😔
2025-05-31 05:20:35
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user3969203535842 :
🙏
2025-05-22 03:11:37
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David :
💐💐💐💐♥️♥️♥️
2025-05-20 19:46:13
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