@itsamymillie: We all carry pain. But that doesn’t make it a free pass to project it onto others. Yes, people are hurting. And yes, that hurt can spill over. But we can’t keep using pain as an explanation that lets us off the hook. Your wounds might explain the impulse but they don’t excuse the impact. Healing means recognising the pattern and choosing differently, because it’s the only way we stop cycles of harm from repeating. #emotionalintelligence #selfawareness #Relationship #relationshiptips #LifeAdvice #selfdevelopment #CapCut

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thespacesbetweenseconds
abdallah :
"being hurt is not a free pass, it's a reason to do the work", brilliant
2025-05-20 15:57:19
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zoemoranaliao
Zoe Morana :
very true!! in the artist's way, julia cameron says the blocked artists, or people who refuse to face themselves, often become abusers. meanwhile those who are busy actually following their path won't push that energy onto others
2025-05-20 18:32:15
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mrtull
Kelly Tull :
Louder for the ones in the back!!!
2025-05-22 22:55:03
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mercutio88
Merc :
Working with it or handing it over: totally the point: well said :)
2025-05-21 04:04:19
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jeremycox6698
Jeremy :
Sooo good!
2025-05-20 18:26:55
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phx_ldn
Ryan G. :
Finally back on my page, and so soon, too!
2025-05-20 14:11:17
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studiowestfour
StudioWestFour :
Absolutely
2025-05-29 13:17:03
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alhambra225
alhambra :
I never thought the saying was to dismiss or allow their actions, I always thought it was for peace of mind the the one being hurt. in the sense that they aren't hurting you to hurt you, they are hurting and passing it along.
2025-05-23 03:55:45
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gnome1169
beth :
I agree, I also hate this phrase it doesn't make it okay to hurt others
2025-05-20 16:46:05
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eatsleepdave
EatSleepDave :
very true. also you look amazing! sorry had to say it. you points are exactly right.
2025-05-20 13:53:26
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ginagaylegray
Gina Gayle :
Agree! I’ve added to that saying “heal YOUR emotional wounds to stop the cycle”.
2025-06-07 17:47:13
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larryfulkerson0
Larry Fulkerson :
where have you been.
2025-05-30 04:07:54
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fourleafclover1319
Fourleafclover🍀 :
I hate that phrase for exactly that reasoning. thank you
2025-05-28 20:00:25
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indie58231
Indie :
Subconsciously we pass this pain to others. Is this something we can control? Like I often only reflect after the damage is done. Is this bc neurodivergence?
2025-05-25 12:46:00
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hazzzzab
Harriet | Writer + Listener :
This is so important
2025-05-23 17:50:14
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joyful.guy
Jacob :
Great point ❤️
2025-05-23 03:24:50
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wholesomepie1
Makelle Berry :
thank you for this post and for saying this. ✨
2025-05-23 01:48:32
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pabrie333
pabrie333 :
Appreciate this thank You for this insight:)
2025-05-22 19:30:00
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@pisces_lola🩵♓️🧜‍♀️🌊✨️ :
Amy: "Hi bb" Me: "Hi. 🥺💜"
2025-05-21 18:14:04
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bryan.castle.jr
Bryan Castle Jr :
I’ve often used the phrase, but I also like your take on it. 👍
2025-05-21 03:16:50
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rodneykennyhenry
Rodney Kenny Henry :
🥰🥰🥰
2025-06-02 22:23:04
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oscarjr0971
oscarjr :
😔
2025-05-31 05:20:35
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user3969203535842 :
🙏
2025-05-22 03:11:37
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David :
💐💐💐💐♥️♥️♥️
2025-05-20 19:46:13
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